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Minionz t1_jefwe2q wrote

Sounds like your not getting married any time soon. Anyone expecting the other person to be debt free as part of marriage is going to be waiting a very long time. Where does she draw the line? If you had a mortgage on a house, that is debt. Just start making payments as you can and calculate the payoff period. Then come back to her and tell her you can get married in 5~ years.

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bigbadbertin t1_jefwe25 wrote

Not sure about bars but there’s a Formula 1 watch party group on meetup! They meet for each race at a coffee shop in the north end called Caffe dello Sport. I’ve been to a few of the watch parties and they were always a fun time!

Here’s the link to their meetup page: Formula 1 Boston

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EmmaSchiller t1_jefwdyb wrote

yup its that we disagree, not that what you said is 1:1 with the suburbanite "the city is crazy and evil and dangerous and dont ever go there or you'll get carjacked!!!!!!!!!" complain.

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My bad, when it looks like a duck, talks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, i tend to assume I'm looking at a duck.

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AMerrickanGirl t1_jefwcmv wrote

Telling his family is mean and vindictive. Do you really want to be that kind of person? What exactly would that accomplish? Don’t lower yourself like that, you’re not in high school any more, so be an adult and handle this like an adult.

Just walk away from both of them. It’s your cheating boyfriend you should be angry with (and break up with) not this other guy.

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alexm2816 t1_jefwbd8 wrote

You have student loans > 1 years income and consumer debt > 2 years income. It's time to find a higher paying job if you can fear be damned.

I met a girl whose dad said he'd be rotting in the ground before he let her date a guy with long hair. Turns out a $14 trip to cost cutters didn't fix much and it was the kid under the hair he wasn't fond of...

Are you certain this has anything at all to do with debt and isn't just a dad posturing? If your future partner is beholden to her father you're not looking at a great outcome regardless of your next steps.

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