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Floralmind_ OP t1_jefxtyt wrote

In my head I keep rationalising it as compromises everybody has to make. They don’t come from a well off family. So it’s not like there’s any backup.

It started with oh dial down on the expectations you have for this sort of a wedding and that sort of a home or this kind of jewellery. (This is what I’ve grown up with and while it never was a MUST,it is to an extent how I wanted my life to be)

Now that it’s all coming down to money I feel like crap. We don’t see money and get married cuz there’s something called love and emotions and trust and understanding that’s all important. How have I finally gotten all that only to start from ground0 because they’re not wealthy and he’s so bad with money. 😭

I need somebody to tell me if these are major red flags or they sort eventually. Like maybe a phase. 🥲

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ohwhatta_gooseiam t1_jefxtov wrote

I don't know how to interpret this:

>*'Quality of life is priceless' >This year is the first one the survey conducted by Infojobs specifically sought the reason for quitting a job, showing the importance of emotional well-being for workers and their reduced focus on financial motives.

I mean, I can guess through context clues, but damn, it's making my head hurt trying to understand. looks like the author did a bunch of re writing of that section, but never tied it all together. or maybe a translation issue from French to English?

Is it saying that this is the first survey by infojobs in which participants were asked why they quit their job, and it found that the number one reason was for emotional well-being?

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Lcokheed_Martini t1_jefxslv wrote

It’s a logical and reasonable inference to suggest that this shift relates to people being home so the opportunities for non-violent property crimes were reduced.

And while people were at home they had more time to implode into self harm or explode into harming others. This occurred more often with those that were already marginalized before Covid hit because they had fewer resources to start and got more marginalized and felts the impacts more acutely.

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ta589962 t1_jefxs1e wrote

Also, she’s only 21 and “is getting a job”. She hasn’t even started her career yet. A lot of things could change between now and then. If you stay together then hopefully knowing her own mind is one of them.

That being said, does she/her father know the extent of your debts and salary? Because if so, especially as CEO, this guy knows marriage is off the table with his rule. And maybe that’s what he’s counting on—it’s a way to keep his daughter safe from marrying young while ensuring financial stability.

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Bruce-7891 t1_jefxrs9 wrote

Yeah, some of those, you have to ask, what are we calling a state of matter now? Superconductivity? It's a physical property. That's like saying hot and cold are states of matter. This is giving me "there are 27 different genders" vibes.

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