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Squirrelherder_24-7 t1_jegaqxg wrote

Without a lot more info, there’s not much we can help you with. I’d reach out to the National Foundation for Credit Counseling www.nfcc.org and talk to a professional that can help you with your budgeting and putting a plan together to address this. 20K sounds like a lot but it’s not the end of the world. If you dial back your expenses (and are making good money), you can get this paid off in full in a few years.

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Mountain_Monitor_262 t1_jegaqte wrote

So you could care less that you ruined and cheated on your marriage and only care about ruining your friendship. Your first thought should have been how to save your marriage. You shouldn’t be married. You two deserve each other and quit deceiving your SO’s. If you’re keeping your best friend / fuck buddy then lose the wife.

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tacoman333 t1_jegaqka wrote

The difference between the two would be intent. The experienced filmmaker tried to do something for a specific reason, while the amatuer filmmaker didn't have the skill necessary to produce the film they envisioned. You said it should be obvious to me that you were "talking about movies made unskillfully, not directors or actors choices" implying that you make a clear distinction between the two.

The bottom line is film quality like as with all art is subjective. For every element in a movie whether unintended or intended, made by an experienced filmmaker or an amatuer, the final decision of whether it contributes positively or negatively to the quality of the film is purely a subjective one.

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lions239 OP t1_jegaoxg wrote

This comment honestly means a lot. Where I'm at in life isn't making me happy, and I really want to move but throwing away 2k in rent every month is holding me back which is what has ultimately lead me to question and learn about my finances. I rented for a year after college, which is normal and most people do it for years and years, so maybe I should consider that again instead of stressing, and instead hold off on making any big decisions...

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