So you realize you are cheating on Tom, which I guess is some level of self awareness. Imo there's no separation of emotional vs physical and one is better or worse than the other. Unfaithful is unfaithful. You are deliberately engaging in romantic intimacy with someone other than your partner. Your own behavior has shown you are incapable of keeping things "truly platonic" with Kay. If you want to be in a romantic relationship with someone else imo you have to cut way way way down on time with Kay, perhaps even a period of no contact. And Kay has shown with her behavior she's probably not really ever going to take the plunge and fully and openly be with you. I even hestitate to call her your "ex" because yall really were never together by the info in this post. Yall had a messy situationship where Kay was cheating on her partner. Just bad all around.

Even if you ditch Tom and decide to keep the friendship with Kay what are you going to get out of that but more pain, longing, and frustration. Sometimes there's just people you can't be around because the timing is never right. It sucks but it's how we react to these times that shows our character. And right now both of yall seem to be so stuck in the weeds of your situation you can't zoom to see how it makes both of you behave in really bad ways.

What about cheeto dust? Will that dirty it sufficiently?

That eliminates one of the benefits of treasuries then…

CLAM?

Do you really love the lamp or do you just say it?

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Very telling that he is super concerned about his friend throughout this entire post and doesn't mention his wife or feeling guilty at all.

I feel really bad for her and I hope she finds out soon.

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It is likely the Roth earnings, considering that the only valid destinations are Roth IRA or Roth IRA. Calling it pretax is just weird.

If it were pretax employer match, valid destinations would have included traditional IRA.

But with the Force, you can say "These are not the TPS reports you are looking for." /s

I have hope for the DC reboot. Give me a great Superman movie and I’ll throw my money at it

Sorry, I meant which companies.

But, I thought being honest and communicating was what’s really important?

They dont call him agent "P" for no reason

"Wakandan scientist removes mind stone from Vision"

Well, if at first you don’t succeed…

Which iPhone do you have?

But bringing $0 home to her district

you have to be hard-boiled

I want to answer but I’m just a smidge confused, what did you mean by CPU frame

Sorry but those front legs ain't right on either. If they aren't in pain now they will be in future.

What a movie though. Listening to the soundtrack right now, and even that is incredibly good. There's such a crazy balance of big sweeping scale and moments of quiet little melancholy or warmth.

😳😳😳😳😳

To protect the children? Absolutely! Most of those kids have gone through enough bad to last a lifetime before they’re put in the system…whatever can be done to make sure the system doesn’t make things worse is great!