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Pope-Francisco t1_jegc0fz wrote

“Did you seriously have to kill the fucking prince to prevent the curse from killing you?!” “Yes! What, do you not want your daughter to live?!” “Of course I do! But it’s a different thing when you kill someone else & it causes a fuckin war between land & sea!” “Well to be fair, he was a creep.” “What?” “And not the normal kind of creep either, he was even creepier than a Pearlfish.” “Oh my god.” “Yeah.” “I can see why you killed him, I’m so sorry you had to go through that.” “Eh, it’s alright, he got what was coming to him. Plus I at least got to live by doing so.” “Alright, I let you off the hook. Just make sure whenever you kill someone you have a good reason.” “Noted.”

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Alaska2Maine t1_jegc04c wrote

In the short term you can do anything for a few months. I used to fly between Portland and Anchorage every 3 weeks for 6 months. I always knew it was temporary though.

But if I were you and you really wanted this job, I’d look into relocating. Spending your days commuting is hell

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ImpressiveBig8485 t1_jegc048 wrote

Sand sucks for various reasons. Mason/Paver/Concrete sand is commonly used as a bedding material for pavers (only ~1” depth on top of compacted base) but it erodes easily with water and doesn’t compact well. I know several Hardscapers that strongly recommend against sand.

Depending on your area, you want a minimum of 3-4 inches of compacted Road 2, 3/4 minus, or equivalent. If you have poor foundation and/or get a lot of rain and settling, 6-8” is more ideal. On top of that use 1” or 1 1/4” rails to screed a 1”layer of DG or 1/4” chip stone and then lay your pavers. Use polymeric sand to fill the joints. If you must use sand as a bedding material for the pavers, then concrete sand is preferred because it is more coarse. I would NOT use sand as a base.

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HHIOTF t1_jegbzhu wrote

oh lord, I remember going through this with my husband who loved his orange statement wall. LOL.

Honestly, you just have to talk about it and find new furnishings together. Hubs resisted me at first, but I told him I didn't feel like it was my home when it was all his stuff with his orange wall. I needed us to choose different stuff together.

We sold a lot of our stuff and found couches and other things we could agree on. He had a few pieces that I like and we kept those.

I know talking about this stuff is hard, but it needs to feel like the space is both of yours.

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dedokta t1_jegbzhz wrote

I used to have a mixed blue heeler husky. When he shed it was a nightmare of fur. I was complaining to a friend about it and they said they completely understood because their cat was malting as well. I bent over and grabbed a handful of fur from my dogs chest. I held it up and asked "Would your cat be about this big?"

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normalboyz1 t1_jegbzb7 wrote

i think everyone will have different level of ok with this. luckily you understand how it feels so you don't get upset too much.

i think the ball is in your court. you can ask him to stop cos for most ppl that's cheating. or if both of you are open enough, you can start sexting random ppl too, be open to each other and use the sexual tension from that into your sex life.

just have sit down and talk about it.

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diablocanada t1_jegbyx2 wrote

What a joke Italia. The number one steal of your data is your own government American Canadian British constantly they breached their own Constitution. Canada cuz Mr potato Head challenge everybody to his dictatorship just like the truckers when he said they were racist and terrorists we find out had nothing to do with anything but him in power. Number two the Americans using the CIA the FBI a Homeland security to silence their own people cuz they spoke up against them. Brett just treats everybody like an idiot and collect their data. I love chat GDP AI rocks. They just want this gone because the challenges their authority. Because AIS have no feelings it is logical. And today is science politicians is all about feelings and I've already heard them call AI is racist sexes so what the hell is wrong withs people.

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