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a-c-moore t1_jaer1bx wrote

It sucks, but it's something you learn to handle better with practice. Being rejected is okay. It doesn't mean you'll always get rejected. It doesn't mean you should be mad at whoever rejected you. It just means you'll get to try again somewhere else again later, which can be exciting in its own way.

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CourageTraditional63 t1_jaer0q1 wrote

There are so many! Firstly, look at how many crimes actually get solved? Hardly any. Think how many nice people it takes to take down a bad person in society? A piece of shit can test everyone and benefit the entire way where as good people don't even try to win through unethical means.

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vivivivivistan t1_jaeqz0w wrote

If they never apologize. Apologizing is normal, nobody is perfect, but if you realize your partner never apologizes you'll probably also realize it's because they rarely ever take responsibility when something goes wrong. If they show up late, it's because their roommate misplaced their keys, the bus was late, they had to stop for gas, traffic was crazy, etc. If your feelings are hurt it's because you misinterpreted what they said, you gave them the impression that you actually would've liked it, they actually meant to do it another way but something else caused it to change. If they do something wrong it's because you drove them to it, you actually don't understand the situation, you're jumping to conclusions, what they did wasn't wrong in the first place, you're trying to control them by saying that that's wrong.

Sometimes it's obvious, but other times you get sucked into what they're saying and you don't see what's happening.

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