Submitted by rftg345 t3_xwa941 in Connecticut
I moved here 2 years ago and found it’s been very hard to make friends or date people who are locals. Most of my friends and successful dates have been others that moved here. I have friends that are locals but I was introduced by other people.
But just going to events or bars to make friends or find dates etc people are very cold and keep to themselves. Boston, NYC, Pittsburgh etc are not like this. Online dating is like night and day too
Why are people like this? It makes this place feel very unwelcoming
If you want to be friends we can discuss interests, my DMs are open
Edit: downvote all you want, only proves my point. Interesting thread now with many people confirming my experience and enough people being defensive about it