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thaliff t1_j4muzpw wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
Mass marketing of average coffee at best.
Emblazin t1_j4mqoep wrote
Reply to comment by gyokuro in They make money videotaping officials. Why and how some CT leaders want to stop them by gyokuro
Yeah because barging into a town hall and pestering the town clerk while recording them really is exposing corruption.
Lovelyone123- t1_j4ml3fc wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
More like rhode island lol. We have one on every corner.
azathot t1_j4mkhwt wrote
I have ton of experience and insight into this area, my son is going to graduate this summer, and we were told this was never going to happen.
We're in Middletown, our experience started out with Moody School telling us our child was weird and he couldn't be in school. As it turns out this is quite illegal. The school requested a "mental" evaluation, where they paid for an expert, that rendered an opinion that no only turned out for completely false, but favored the school. This started a battle that lasted a few years and to the dismissal of the principal.
We had access to the Yale Child Center, which is one of the leading Autism research centers in the world (check out their robotics work for non-verbal, low functioning children, it's amazing.) We had a parallel report and evaluation done and this proved to be a keystone in our continual fight over the next twelve years.
Once your child has been identified, you will need that paperwork to deal with the school district. Our son attended Benhaven for a few years until he was ready to start transitioning, with a Para, into regular school. So what was needed in between? Here's a quick guide to help you.
Special Education services are run at the state level and filter down to the district level. They will fight you tooth and nail through the entire process. My suggestion is this:
Bring a laptop. At EVERY meeting with the school, take a roll call - the get the name and title, and function of everyone at the meeting. Get contact information. Note the date and the time. Record the information in the meeting like a court recorder would. I cannot tell you how many times, early on, where someone said something, and I was able to recall the information up and dispute in the meeting.
Do not give in to some of the strong arm tactics. When school district thought we were going to sue them, they ambushed us with with the district lawyer and intentionally set up the room where we were encircled by the administration. After everyone arrived, I moved all of the tables to the wall, except for one, and set the room up where it was more favorable for us, once they announced the lawyer, I started recording the video and audio and that never happened again.
Do not be afraid to discuss the possibility of having legal council there. We never brought a lawyer, but we discussed it several times. Eventually, we had zero shenanigans from the school. This is where meticulous documentation comes in. I scanned all the documents they provided to us, and all the information I recorded into Evernote and that gave me instant search.
Many of the teachers and paras are great, but they are overworked and do not have an appropriate support system. Over the past twelve years, this has improved, in particular with the student who received national attention for the scream room incident (he was in my Son's class at Benhaven).
Always get a second opinion on any diagnosis. Never let the school distribute medication. Save, retain and archive all documentation and assume the district is not working in favor of your child. Once the district sees that you are not a push over (for horror stories, talk to single moms with daughters on the spectrum in any Autism support group), the district will not pursue their angle, because you provide too much resistance. In most cases they expect you to be disengaged, once they realize you aren't, most barriers drop. Also, feel free to not except things that are proposed during the PPT meetings. There were plenty of times, we flat out said "no" and proposed an alternate - all of which were accepted.
Hope this helps and welcome to Connecticut.
PettyWitch t1_j4mje5r wrote
Reply to comment by jules13131382 in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
I was just kidding though, everybody has their own taste in food, can't be good or bad :)
gyokuro OP t1_j4mj18u wrote
Reply to They make money videotaping officials. Why and how some CT leaders want to stop them by gyokuro
The appearance of corruption is just as pernicious as real corruption itself. Connecticut has so many houses of cards being propped up by corruption, no wonder legislators are freaking out about being held accountable on video. The state's cannabis social equity council has already banned public comment at their public meetings. Seems like this is the next logical step for them to silence any and all dissent.
jules13131382 t1_j4mebl1 wrote
Reply to comment by PettyWitch in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
Lol that could be true. I’m not very picky. I do know that the West Coast is super into really boutique hipster food and I think you probably see that more in New Haven or Greenwich, or some of the extremely wealthy areas of Connecticut, maybe not so much in Central Connecticut.
Advanced-Sun-2200 t1_j4mcm6g wrote
If u call 211 they can help. They have a lot of resources to direct you to the services your looking for.
One-Awareness-5818 t1_j4ma9kz wrote
Check out Facebook group special needs parents of Connecticut. Anything kids related, Facebook is better.
PettyWitch t1_j4ma128 wrote
Reply to comment by jules13131382 in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
Then you have bad taste in food 😩
DayShiftDave t1_j4m9h80 wrote
Reply to comment by Green_House_57 in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
You're so right. On a recent trip to my local coffee shop, two 12oz cold brews and two almond croissants was $33 with tax, before tip. It's always good to remind myself why I suffer Dunks.
mikeymo1741 t1_j4m6ib2 wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
I moved to Florida, I tried to explain to people how many places in Connecticut you can stand in a Dunkin' donuts and see another Dunkin' donuts.
Same vibe down here but with 7-Elevens
CanaryUmbrella t1_j4m2sue wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
The south has a version of this with waffle house.
Few-Information7570 t1_j4m2m2t wrote
Weston
onihr1 t1_j4m1y39 wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
silas dean highway i think has 3 d&d and 2 cvs all with in like 5 minutes of each other.
Prize-Hedgehog t1_j4lzlr7 wrote
Reply to comment by Scrotaur in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
And yet people line up even admit it’s a crapshoot, and still continue going.
Maleficent-Cow5775 t1_j4lziyk wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
It's not America runs on Dunkin it's new England runs on Dunkin
ComradeJohnS t1_j4lzbou wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
I had my coffee made badly one dozen too many times, so I started just buying the iced coffee and a good creamer from stop n shop, and always got the same taste in the morning for cheaper lol.
I don’t drink coffee anymore since the snickers creamer stopped being as available.
tree_hugging_hippie t1_j4lxw4d wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
Dunkin has been awful for ages. I was so happy when they built a Bakers Dozen right around the corner.
tree_hugging_hippie t1_j4lxjpk wrote
Reply to comment by PettyWitch in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
Deviant Donuts in Mystick Village is pretty good.
Stretchy_Cat t1_j4lxhvk wrote
Reply to comment by PettyWitch in CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
If you're looking for soft, moist, doughy, fried glazed doughnuts then I'd recommend Brooklyn Baking in Waterbury. They don't do a ton of flavors, they're not trendy hipster doughnuts with a pile of candy or cereal or bacon or rainbow frosting (or all of the above) on top, but they're simple and delicious. I've never had a dry doughnut there.
caring_impaired t1_j4lxd7n wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
They spelled garbage wrong.
Delirious-DM t1_j4lx9xd wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
Is it just me or do the hashbrowns burn the living piss out of anyone trying to eat them
Much-Act7187 t1_j4lv2xz wrote
Reply to CT in a nutshell by Mortgena
I can’t stand Dunkin coffee or doughnuts. They’re awful.
thesbaine t1_j4mw18x wrote
Reply to They make money videotaping officials. Why and how some CT leaders want to stop them by gyokuro
I'm all for recording town meetings and (scheduled) interactions with town employees. Transparency is good for our democracy.
What isn't good or helpful is busting into someones office unannounced, shoving a camera/phone in their face, and rattle of questions. It's stupid.
That's not a first amendment thing. That's just being a dick.