My 6 siblings and I quite unintentionally distributed ourselves just about as far apart as possible. LA, Seattle, North ID, Chicago, Denver, Virginia. I think it was subconscious. We get along a lot better theses days, but we mostly converse via group text. One brother keeps trying to proselytize, and we keep having to shut him down.

Exactly my question... And sad thing is I realize we both can be that toxic person at different times. We gonna try to solve it ourselves a few more times I guess, but maybe it is time to try family therapist services, I don't know...

“When you want something, the whole universe conspires in order for you to achieve it”

— The Alchemist

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Indecisiveness Lv 100

Keep gambling

Ah yes, carrot dangling at its finest.

yea it sucks, I was hit by a random drunk driver going +100km/ h on a snowmachine while I was walking and I went about 20 feet in the air and landed on neck/ head. was knocked out for 8 hours, my friends thought I was dead.

That… does NOT sound enjoyable at all. I’m sorry man.

no no, it's needed for me, medical use, I have central nervous system damage and fibromyalgia, it's difficult getting out of bed due to chronic pain

I think covid shutdown illustrated this for a lot of people like myself.

Seriously though… smoking a bunch of weed is probably not helping in the “I should go get some shit done!” department.

Haha my weed smoking is even slacking! I'll have a bowl rn though

Settle down there Cheech! lol

It’s not always clear whether you’re in a situation where you should cut your losses or you should persevere. There are lots of stories of people who stuck it out and won big, but just as many stories of people who lost everything by staying on a sinking ship.

smoke some weed?

LOL u/CanadaWeedReviews needs motivation? I think I may have a suggestion…

This isn't how real life works. You wouldn't go mining if you didn't already know there were diamond veins and how deep they are to access.

A much more accurate metaphor is once you hit a vein, you have to keep digging and you don't know how shallow or deep the vein is.

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Just buy hoards of precut diamonds, why waste effort digging???

someone shoop the Balrog in place of the diamonds

Anyone else see this and unable to not think of the dwarf version of this?

Its looks like an advertising for a betting site

I feel like “triggers” is supposed to mean something else

I believe in you! Don’t forget to give yourself credit for each thing you do and check off your list! Maybe think of a min prize for tonight when you finish your list!