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Rumi said something similar, still very relevant.

AND FART LIKE A MAN!

*Eat like a dietitian

Nutritionist is not a protected term and is meaningless

And no, I'm not very fun at parties.

Walk like an Egyptian

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Start small, don’t try to change everything at once. If ur lazy start by setting an alarm to get up at the same time every morning, don’t snooze it and don’t think just cuz u have nothing to do, u stay in bed. Make the bed, don’t leave it in a state and cook a breakfast.

Once that becomes a habit, fill ur time. start by spending 30 min of everyday on something to improve urself. If you think you don’t have 30 min, then ur just gonna have to get up 30 min earlier everyday. Improving urself could be something physical or mental.

Physically, yoga or gym will probably get the results u want depending on whether u want to look good or feel good.

Mentally, Being comfortably with urself is more important than trying to be someone else. Self help books are gimmicky but work for some and you should try it out before dismissing it. Mindfulness or inspirational podcast may do the trick too. Don’t spend money unless you exhausted google for free resources first or else you will just clutter ur house with shit u don’t need which will make u more sad on wasted money.

If you have the money, the best resource would be a therapist to work through the issues and help you be more comfortable being urself but it’s very expensive and not available for all.

Solving the loneliness problem will be a long journey which involves putting urself out there. Find a club or activity u like and join it. You make friends naturally from just doing the same thing with the same people every week. I wouldn’t recommend dating until you are happier cuz I find dating destroys the self esteem when it doesn’t work out.

Good luck.

Burnt out millenials with debt still living with their parents being told they arent grinding hard enough from people who inherited generational wealth? Yeah i get that.

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That is literally true

Thank you. This reminds me of every job I’ve worked where the manager wants to keep people motivated for some distant possibly of great reward.

The legend himself

Yea this is silly

this is just straight up advice and not at all motivational

Win like a champion

If I'm smiling when I'm sad I'm also gonna confuse myself. I prefer hard cry for 15 minutes and then get back up.

As a fellow social anxiety person, I support you! I joined drama class to fight my social anxiety.

Minecraft logic

i think it just speaks to the nature of the common redditor.

No no, i mean actual socialism - not the type that most Americans seem to confuse with socialism. The German Democratic Republics type for example.

Works everytime.

Yes, this is third similar post I’ve seen today. They seem pretty motivated to post about no motivation…

That's terrible advice! There are very few people who could follow it. It's a recipe for failure and disappointment.

Be more realistic folks. Set achievable goals, then move the bar higher. You'll get ther!

Trying to get over my social anxieties, gonna plan on going to a new place every week be it some adventure sport, art gallery or Restaurant cause fuck it I've had enough