Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
spiderborland t1_j46dr8o wrote
Casual_Frontpager t1_j46dipi wrote
Reply to comment by JacDGzmn in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
Yer, same here. I still hate myself for taking so long to realize what was going on though, but I guess the other person could have said something too. Still, left with lots of questions and no way of getting answers and sense of dignity at the same time.
mcpickledick t1_j46ddyw wrote
Reply to adults who look back at pictures of their younger selves and realize they had no reason to be so insecure back then, should bear in mind that they will likely be thinking the same thing in a couple decades when looking back on their current selves [discussion] by ideas_now
Kind of a double edged sword though because essentially what you're saying is "don't worry, you'll be wayyyy uglier in the future"
Batman2325 t1_j46d208 wrote
Reply to [Image] Remember, the small steps you take in between are where the living happens. by lil_tig
Thanks man I needed this
stumped711 t1_j46cpfq wrote
Reply to comment by Raddyrode in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
How short sighted you are. How can a situation of gender matter at all? It’s not like there are 1,000 men to a single woman. In fact the population of the human is actually very close to 50/50z
It’s likely a situation of you have issues, thus why you have a harder time connecting with someone after a breakup. Especially when you already doubt yourself by saying it is “easier for the girl”
lil_tig OP t1_j46arne wrote
Reply to comment by ShaggyX-96 in [Image] Remember, the small steps you take in between are where the living happens. by lil_tig
Make the steps even smaller
TheSpiritualCo t1_j46af5j wrote
Hope you have a good day too 😊
TheSpiritualCo t1_j46a6ne wrote
Reply to [image] by _Cautious_Memory
This is something that I should live by. I’ll try to incorporate this at work.
ShaggyX-96 t1_j469i5p wrote
Reply to [Image] Remember, the small steps you take in between are where the living happens. by lil_tig
Sometimes when I zoom into that one step it seems like the image on the left.
macmann69 t1_j469b34 wrote
Narcsyssist t1_j4691ui wrote
[deleted] t1_j468yco wrote
Reply to comment by TreeB7 in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
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wastingtoomuchthyme t1_j467pwg wrote
Reply to comment by dan_dares in [Image] "I have not failed 700 times. I have not failed once. I have succeeded in proving that those 700 ways will not work. When I have eliminated the ways that will not work, I will find the way that will work." ~ Thomas A. Edison by Butterflies_Books
Exactly, Edison was better at PR than inventing
shikin_ t1_j467pef wrote
aroma7777 t1_j467oi8 wrote
WoW 🤍🤍🤍👏👏👏
hundredthlion t1_j466i2k wrote
Reply to comment by Ganjii_303 in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
Then go ahead and remove them and stop worrying so much about why they wouldn’t remove you. Seems pretty ridiculous to sit around deciding how other people should run their own accounts. Just do what you want with your own and move on.
pandatheghost t1_j466fio wrote
Reply to adults who look back at pictures of their younger selves and realize they had no reason to be so insecure back then, should bear in mind that they will likely be thinking the same thing in a couple decades when looking back on their current selves [discussion] by ideas_now
What about adults that reaffirm why they were so insecure as a teenager?
dan_dares t1_j463aey wrote
Reply to [Image] "I have not failed 700 times. I have not failed once. I have succeeded in proving that those 700 ways will not work. When I have eliminated the ways that will not work, I will find the way that will work." ~ Thomas A. Edison by Butterflies_Books
Failed 700 times, steal someone elses idea..
"Hey guys, I got it to work!"
loganhudak t1_j462zb1 wrote
Reply to comment by Raddyrode in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
One hundo
BarnacleMcBarndoor t1_j462pqm wrote
Reply to adults who look back at pictures of their younger selves and realize they had no reason to be so insecure back then, should bear in mind that they will likely be thinking the same thing in a couple decades when looking back on their current selves [discussion] by ideas_now
I look back at my photos and immediately think that I should have been MORE critical. I was an ugly kid, but fortunately I didn’t remain an ugly kid for too long.
Now I’m an ugly adult.
Cismet t1_j461mhh wrote
No cringe, pls
Delicious_Ad_1853 t1_j461as7 wrote
Reply to [Image] Remember, the small steps you take in between are where the living happens. by lil_tig
"Do the next right thing."
TreeB7 OP t1_j460l9m wrote
Reply to comment by JacDGzmn in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
I salute you too! It takes courage and a strong will to do what you did and that is inspirational. Good job
ideas_now OP t1_j460el3 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in adults who look back at pictures of their younger selves and realize they had no reason to be so insecure back then, should bear in mind that they will likely be thinking the same thing in a couple decades when looking back on their current selves [discussion] by ideas_now
Me too!
Clownhooker t1_j46e2sr wrote
Reply to Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
I just had a friend of 25years drop me like a bug-filled-taco. I adopted a puppy and she felt the need to pull every problem I’ve ever had with a dog into an argument why I shouldn’t have this dog I told here “the dog is staying” and she grumbled off. When I followed up the next day on how any why that hurt me and if she was doing that in other relationships it was toxic. She replied back with “do not contact me again” she removed me from all socials and the streaming services we were sharing.
This is someone I considered my sister. That does not allow her to treat me like that. I deserve respect and love and the ability to change. My friends should also be able to take criticism when it come from the heart. You hurt me, should be followed up with an apology not doubled down on.
Will I have a whole where she used to be? For a while but soon it will turn into a stained glass memory of what a good friend she WAS. It okay to let people go.