Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
alurkerhere t1_j4aceeq wrote
Reply to comment by asianclooney in Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
I like when I look back at my READMEs, and they layout exactly what to do; I am sure to have forgotten the exact steps.
-DethLok- t1_j4abw8r wrote
Reply to adults who look back at pictures of their younger selves and realize they had no reason to be so insecure back then, should bear in mind that they will likely be thinking the same thing in a couple decades when looking back on their current selves [discussion] by ideas_now
Pfft, nope!
I'm one of the lucky ones who was able to retire early at 55 and got an instant $100/fn increase in take home pay. It's gone up 3 times since then and will go up further every 6 months until I die.
I wish defined benefit pensions still existed for everyone else, but sadly, the Big Bosses decided to increase their own pay, not the pay of their workers nor the pension plans of their retired workers... Hmm...
Perhaps consider this next time you vote in an election?
Review the history of the people wanting you to vote for them, and review their polices - do their policies make your life better, or just make THEIR life better?
Rural_millenial_82 t1_j4aab6l wrote
Reply to [Discussion]i just got diagonosed with adhd at age 25. i am procrastinating right now. please help me with any hacks or motivational tips to increase productivity by sufalghosh53
Find your productive procrastination methods, as my friends call it. I find that there’s generally about 40 things I want to do … all at once. Realistically, I know I can’t do them all. However, finding the ones I can do while I procrastinate on the others has been important. For example: got a paper due Friday, and it’s Wednesday? I can’t start it yet, because I just freaking can’t, so I’m going to fold the clothes I’ve not folded for two weeks. I’m procrastinating on the paper, but I’m still productive.
Also, if your energy/hyperactivity ebbs and flows, having a routine for high energy days and one for low energy days. Low energy day= an accomplishment to eat, sleep, get to work at a decent time, & wrangle a shower. High energy day= meal prepping (for low energy days), deep condition my hair or cut my toe nails, load & run the dishwasher or do a load of laundry, and catch up on the endless stack of 5 minute emails I’ve been putting off for days at work. Find what works for you on the high/low energy days, & just try to keep moving.
This is my first post so I hope it is helpful.
thndrbrd87 t1_j4a9yqm wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
Time is a flat circle.
MeteoraPsycho t1_j4a9v9z wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
nah, future-me can go f*ck herself :D
Spacechicken0 t1_j4a9ntf wrote
Reply to [Image] It's always the first step by haiderali30
yup, it took a while before i finally realized i can only handle small balls, not the big ones
GLOaway5237 t1_j4a9gg7 wrote
Reply to [Image] It's always the first step by haiderali30
Things get easier then get hard again then get easier, but never easy. The first step is the hardest, but the next step is the most important one to take no matter what point you’re at
ElsaNightsong t1_j4a97e3 wrote
Reply to comment by Longjumping_Local910 in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
I've had my fair share of actual stalkers... Sometimes you just gotta have a backbone and be a terrifying force. People are crazy. I can be much more crazy, but I hate having to be.
NanoMash t1_j4a94di wrote
Reply to [Image] Remember, the small steps you take in between are where the living happens. by lil_tig
Is there a term / name for the left case? How to describe that case?
GoodPointSir t1_j4a8ls1 wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
Future me never does anything for past me, and blames past me for not doing more. I hate future me.
allanrps t1_j4a6ti0 wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
Reminds me of a guy from highschool who used to say, totally serious, "Nah fuck that, thats a problem for future Jared." That sparked some deep reflection in me lol
ZFAdri t1_j4a6rkv wrote
Reply to [Image] It's always the first step by haiderali30
Yup felt this I actually became a lot more motivated, happier, and productive after my parents left for awhile and I had to start figuring things out on my own.
YoungLadHuckleberry t1_j4a6q5i wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
I just realized this is the opposite of procrastination, with procrastination basically being to not love your future-self and just give them all the work
Physical_Terror t1_j4a6j9h wrote
Reply to comment by AlternativeAardvark6 in Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
Stop eating late at night by eating just a bit less late at night. This is a projection that may help you but it helps me so... yay?
Physical_Terror t1_j4a6bsr wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
Love this! Reminded me when I would go to do some paperwork that was due and open up a chart and bam it was already done. I gave my past self a high-five right there at the nurses station.
HeyPinkiePie t1_j4a5k75 wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
I do this the opposite way. It's future me problem, screw that guy. Then future me hates past me, and present me is in flux.
I should probably get some help.
Hamare t1_j4a5dwp wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
This is so wholesome.
I love it!
rogahs t1_j4a5bda wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
As a therapist I actually try to use this language at times. Helping clients think about "future them" is really important. Oftentimes things like AD/HD get in the way of our brains ability to visualize or process that a future version of myself suffers from today's actions or lack thereof. Love this!
Longjumping_Local910 t1_j4a4nfz wrote
Reply to comment by ElsaNightsong in Don't linger in someones life if they no longer want you to be part of it. Have some dignity [Discussion] by TreeB7
See “Banshees of Inisherin” for more instructions.
2dolla2 t1_j4a4e59 wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
Fuck future me I hope that guy dies
subject7istaken t1_j4a397a wrote
Reply to Do it for future-you [Image] by wholesomecomics
This is the opposite of past me and future me
Spaventoo t1_j4a38z9 wrote
I always loved this and Little Bear.
TheCoolNoob t1_j4a2rqm wrote
Reply to [Image] "I have not failed 700 times. I have not failed once. I have succeeded in proving that those 700 ways will not work. When I have eliminated the ways that will not work, I will find the way that will work." ~ Thomas A. Edison by Butterflies_Books
This would be a great quote if it wasn't coming from a thief.
Party-Writer9068 t1_j4a2q73 wrote
at the same time, not giving a fuck will hurt a lot more at the start. Its not like you wake up tomorrow without a care in the world but fight everyday to keep yourself in control. But in long run it gets better and better.
imnotsoho t1_j4acmhw wrote
Reply to [Image] Another reminder for whoever needed to see it. by conversingwithoceans
Thank you so much this is awesome. Goes along with this:
Yesterday is a memory, tomorrow is a dream, today is a gift - that is why they call it the present.