Recent comments in /f/GetMotivated
HitomiAdrien t1_j59p6u2 wrote
Iscipline...edication...eternination...got it.
Totally a r/crappydesign
MoonKnightSan t1_j59nzet wrote
What’s the logic behind this?
Dimosa t1_j59nzc1 wrote
This is very bad advice for people who are struggling.
melvah2 t1_j59nb3b wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
That's a really nice cloud. Good work :)
ssatyd t1_j59m5n0 wrote
Reply to comment by keithitreal in [Image] Don’t talk about what you’re going to do by Dark-GV
And actions don't speak as loud as the talkers, by far. The only way to counter that is do the necessary actions and talk about the results, a lot. Of course, those who only talk save the time they should have spent acting (which should be the majority), so it is an uphill battle. But slowly, people will notice. As Henry Ford said: "You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do".
PunktualPenguin t1_j59lpe4 wrote
There is actually a bit of reasoning behind this too.
TLDR: stop talking about it and do it, it’s messing up how your brain gages achievement.
People quit working when they receive a sense of accomplishment .
The shallow reward that they get from announcing their intentions is often enough of an ego boost to fulfill their sense of accomplishment,
They don’t actually put in all of the hard work to do the thing, because they have already gotten their pat on the back.
If you are one of those people that has difficulty finishing things, but loves talking about what you’re going to do, you might want to start using delayed gratification as a carrot.
ErKaf t1_j59la9j wrote
Reply to [Image] “And if at first you don’t succeed, then dust yourself off and try again” — Aaliyah ♥️ by JacDGzmn
Nice battery you have right there, mate.
oddntt t1_j59kel7 wrote
Reply to comment by Otrada in [Image] Don’t talk about what you’re going to do by Dark-GV
I think this advice is more for those who get caught up in the weeds. I have an insanely hard time talking about my accolades, so in order to ever apply for something new I have to just do it without getting stuck on piling all my awards or making sure my CV represents every little thing I've done. I use to do that and I was societally paralyzed for almost a decade.
Ilookbetterthanyou t1_j59ipzk wrote
Unless you have any psychological condition that leads you to manic or delusional states, then absolutely talk about what you want to do with friends so you can test if it's reasonable or not.
syiduk t1_j59io0f wrote
Look. If I talk about it, I get to skip past the hard work and get straight to receiving validation online. *taps head
goatjugsoup t1_j59i7ud wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
Finally a motivating post round here :stonks:
Zenshinn t1_j59hew6 wrote
Also if you're doing drugs, just stop it.
Dumguy1214 t1_j59hc42 wrote
Reply to comment by sarcasm_247 in [Image] Don’t talk about what you’re going to do by Dark-GV
I am a doer, that speaks about it in the shortest ways
fruuduk t1_j59g6wv wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
This is so lovely, thanks for sharing!
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Otrada t1_j59e9ss wrote
Reply to comment by JohnArce in [Image] Don’t talk about what you’re going to do by Dark-GV
Yeah, it's important to not just flap out any plan your brain cooks up in the moment. I usually only share plans after I've had a little time to think it through. If nothing else it's just because if you've got nothing to say about it yet then that just makes for an embarrassing conversation.
And ofc there's a big difference between sharing an interest you have and boasting about what great things you will allegedly be doing.
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Main-Efficiency6937 t1_j59dcii wrote
Reply to comment by gregglesthekeek in [Image] “And if at first you don’t succeed, then dust yourself off and try again” — Aaliyah ♥️ by JacDGzmn
So funny I forgot to laugh.
FindingOutXo t1_j59dbfz wrote
Reply to comment by peedrun in [Image] “And if at first you don’t succeed, then dust yourself off and try again” — Aaliyah ♥️ by JacDGzmn
Must increase skills at-a de penis, yes
glacier-K t1_j59cuwu wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
Rains kill cactus.
coltishcalliope417 t1_j59ck0q wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
You seem to not live on the Sonoran desert...
rudybnn t1_j59cile wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
Nothing like a motivational cactus to get you through a prickly patch
JohnArce t1_j59cexd wrote
Reply to comment by Otrada in [Image] Don’t talk about what you’re going to do by Dark-GV
As someone who rather not boasts, I was advised to share my plans with friends, to get motivated by the encouragement. As well as the accountability.
On the other hand, it is easy to fall into a pattern of just telling people about awesome plans, and collect on that initial praise without having to follow through.
Sometimes I want the motivational energy, sometimes I don't want the pressure.
As with many things in life, it's not about blindly following the one line on the motivional poster, all the time, everytime, and considering the opposite 'the wrong thing'.
meetmehalfgay t1_j59c7pq wrote
Reply to [Image] “And if at first you don’t succeed, then dust yourself off and try again” — Aaliyah ♥️ by JacDGzmn
Never thought I’d see an Aaliyah quote captioning one from Adventure Time, but here we are
dinopastasauce t1_j59q5kr wrote
Reply to [Image] I drew a motivational cactus in my journal to help me power through really low moods by advaluapycp
I’d buy a print in a heartbeat. Love it! Feeling very motivated! Thank you!