Recent comments in /f/LifeProTips

-Chris-V- t1_j21ch4c wrote

Dedicated cat lover here. I've gone to some pretty extreme (and costly) measures to bring my cat back to better health...but in this case, with a 17 year old cat who is clearly suffering and clearly near her end, it would be a kindness to help her pass with whatever dignity she has left. Without your help she may last a day, a month, or even a year, but eventually she will pass-- and her life will only get more agonizing.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j21c9ix wrote

I’m in my first year at a office job and am learning this. We have a good amount of leave that must be used by the end of the year every year. So most of the office has been out these last couple of weeks trying to use it before they lose it. I did the same, but I still glance at my inbox. It’s been mostly empty- the complete opposite of how it usually is. If I had just worked instead, I could likely get by doing next to nothing since almost everyone else is out of the office. Next year I’m planning better.

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PrincessStinkbutt t1_j21c79c wrote

One of the things my vet said that was super helpful when I was trying to figure out when to put my 15.5-year-old dog down was "don't let it get to the point where you feel resentment toward him for doing things that are beyond his control."

I keep in mind that animals don't seem to perceive time and end of life the way we do; they live in the moment and don't anticipate/dread dying from an illness. If they're miserable and have no chance of getting better, it's probably time to let them go.

It sounds like it's time to let your kitty go. I send my best supportive juju to you in this difficult time.

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clevercalamity t1_j21b3ef wrote

Hi friend. My family had to make the tough decision to put our dog down earlier this year. He also had dementia and cancer. It was a hard decision to make because it was such a slow decline and some days (and weeks) were better than others.

Our vet shared with us this quality of life calculator. There are a few online like it. We assessed our boy once a week until it became obvious that it was his time.

I second was other people have said in this thread about at home euthanasia. It was nice getting to say goodbye in a comfortable and safe environment. The vet was so kind and let us take as much time as we needed.

I’m sorry you are going through this.

For what it’s worth, out vet also told us it’s always better to let them go day to early than a day too late. We really struggled with the “when” and not wanting to rob our beloved friend of any time he had left, but because they can’t tell us what they want all we can do is the best we can do and try to let them go gently without any pain.

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