Recent comments in /f/LifeProTips
multiplemom t1_j2chswl wrote
Reply to LPT Request - I've been a punching bag to my closest friends for years. What do I do? by germany_science_1
Ive actually been in this situation three times. Slow learner, I suppose.
In middle school, I just got up with my lunch tray and switched tables. Never spoke to them again as a “friend.” Never responded when any of them asked me why.
Second time, in my late teens, I just moved. Last minute, announced I was moving cross country, and left. It was sort of oddly interesting to watch them scramble in real time to rearrange the ranks and figure out who would be the new butt of the joke. And since none of them would take on that role for an extended period of time, there was a lot of in-fighting, and the group kind of split, and although they’re still friendly, it’s not like it used to be.
As an adult, I took it for a long time, and then I had my kids, and something changed. I finally bit back. It did not go over well. She completely blew her top. Went off the rails. We have not spoken since, and I don’t care. I have made other friends since, and although I was lonely for a period of time, I will never allow anyone to treat me in that manner again.
lavenderrabe t1_j2chplz wrote
Reply to comment by codece in LPT: No one cares if your fitted sheets are folded by Aunt_Anne
To be fair, it is LOVELY getting into a crisp freshly ironed bed 🤤
Not enough that I'd iron my sheets mind you. But it is lovely in a hotel and at granny's house
Imamiah52 t1_j2chl51 wrote
Reply to LPT Request - I've been a punching bag to my closest friends for years. What do I do? by germany_science_1
They're not friends.
Bitter-Heat-8767 t1_j2chcho wrote
Reply to comment by halpmeplz94 in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
Or the drivers can stop driving if they have such a problem with the pay?
eatajerkpal0502 t1_j2cha32 wrote
Reply to comment by XarlesEHeat in LPT: A 'peace' of clear tape over the speaker in electronic childrens' toys makes them much less grating when adjacent to long play sessions. by thiosk
Anakin, is that you?
mighty2019 t1_j2cgmv3 wrote
Reply to comment by mitchwithl in LPT Request: How to get rid of dandruff? by ImThour
Same here.. came to recommend the African black soap.. you can buy it on Etsy..
Zestfullyclean87 t1_j2cgko1 wrote
I have never once successfully folded a fitted sheet. It has never caused me problems. In fact, the only problem I ever faced was trying to fold the fitted sheet.
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PresentAir1133 t1_j2cg8zk wrote
Reply to comment by niketyname in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
I'm a 68 yo non dude. I say it as I see it. Ease up, bruh
use_the_schwartz t1_j2cg71o wrote
Reply to [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
My work will periodically give us gift certificates to Uber Eats/DoorDash/GrubHub, and every single time I tell my wife “no I’ll make the order on the app and go pick it up myself,” and people like you are exactly the reason why.
And yes, I do leave them at least 20% tip because I’ve worked in food service, but the way you handle little annoyances makes me worry for you when you have big time problems down the road in life. Sort yourself out and grow up.
niketyname t1_j2cfv78 wrote
Reply to comment by PresentAir1133 in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
Then you’re an exception dude. There was no need for you to comment like that
PresentAir1133 t1_j2cfafv wrote
Reply to comment by Adamon24 in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
I'm also disabled and knock everything over or drop things. In a 4 story home, it gets old cleaning constantly. I'll join you on the limb and guess that the oven is older than you are. So, after setting the microwave on fire, then set the oven on fire with some good, old ,home cookin...I gave up.
Sharpshooter188 t1_j2cf3xq wrote
Reply to LPT Request - I've been a punching bag to my closest friends for years. What do I do? by germany_science_1
You need to strengthen yourself in a lot of ways. Respect is earned. Workout, learn to socialize more outside of them, study. Do not be afraid to bite back. If it breaks the friendship than so be it. You have to imrpove yourself and then a new group will come to you over time. Just be sure to respect your new group as you understand what its like to be on the bad end.
PresentAir1133 t1_j2cexaa wrote
Reply to comment by Adamon24 in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
I don't. Sorry if this offends you.
PresentAir1133 t1_j2ceqrr wrote
Reply to comment by jadeeyedcalico in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
I wasn't "generalizing everything," but I've been all over the world, and it's rare that a tip is considered a rude gesture. In some countries, they dread seeing American guests bc we're considered loud, demanding, complainers, and terrible tippers.
Willing_Chance8904 t1_j2celjg wrote
Reply to LPT Request - I've been a punching bag to my closest friends for years. What do I do? by germany_science_1
Toss them and Get better friends
PresentAir1133 t1_j2cecwb wrote
Reply to comment by 2BAsupernova in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
I'm a $ten-er +. The lady across the street- $20+ no matter what.
here_for_the_meta t1_j2ceata wrote
Reply to comment by BitofaGreyArea in LPT Request: How to get rid of dandruff? by ImThour
Also rinse the shampoo out very thoroughly and avoid water that is too hot.
PresentAir1133 t1_j2ce5lh wrote
Reply to comment by revuhlution in [LPT] if you're too broke to tip you're too broke for delivery. You never know what number stiff you will be for that driver... I am on my 10th stiff out of 11 deliveries today. All future stiffs for the day will have their food sitting in front of my AC the whole drive. by productoffallout
Yup. It sure ain't the late '60s anymore. And it gets worse as you get older. I'm just outside City proper and anything goes, no rules, no etiquette, no more hanging out with neighbors. Even the cops don't gas. (PS Never buy a condo. there are no laws that protect owners).
patricia_iifym t1_j2ce2n3 wrote
Reply to comment by Beautiful_Path_3519 in LPT: No one cares if your fitted sheets are folded by Aunt_Anne
I’m not an expert but I’m still pretty sure that’s not how OCD works, unfortunately 🫠
Brewtusmo t1_j2ce1t4 wrote
Reply to LPT if you are planning on starting to workout for your new year resolution, start limbering up now. It'll make a dramatic effect on your soreness. Also stretch before and after your workout, even if it's a small amount. by Greyjeedai
Do not stretch before an intense workout. Consensus has changed away from doing so. Instead perform a warm-up prior to beginning your exercise in earnest. Stretching a "cold" muscle could lead to injury itself.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/ask-the-doctor-stretching-before-exercise
https://www.bu.edu/articles/2015/stretch-before-exercise-not-so-fast/
Heyjuronimo t1_j2ce153 wrote
I used to think this. Before I realized that taking maybe an extra 4mins folding my sheets flat and straight does, in fact save so much closet space. Added bonus of no chaos when you open that closet door.
LordAtchley t1_j2cdw1w wrote
Reply to comment by Catspaw129 in LPT: No one cares if your fitted sheets are folded by Aunt_Anne
I read this completely deadpan and then enjoyed a good hearty chuckle. Thank you.
thequeenmeggy t1_j2cdml3 wrote
Or just take the sheets right from the dryer and put them back on the bed without touching the spare set for a year or two.
dhtdhy t1_j2chuoa wrote
Reply to comment by pacefaker in LPT: No one cares if your fitted sheets are folded by Aunt_Anne
What does she use instead of fitted sheets??