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What was his excuse?

fuck. i’m sorry, the internet encapsulates peoples lives forever and it’s a weird feeling. but at least some memories remain.

uhggggggg it was old, but i find it weird he kept his exes nudes. i have selfies with my ex, but not naughty naughty ones 👀

I still have a couple dead people on my fb messenger.

i will take this advice to heart. i really will, thank you. i’m sorry for y’all’s loss 💔

ohhhhkay? i think? you’re trying to be clever? idk read the room ya cabbage 🥬

really only my mom does. and i’m really glad for it. text messages are nice to read, but hearing her voice made me tear up instantly. especially the funny ones.

> my mom hasn’t even passed and i’m a M E S S.

I'm so sorry, I totally get it. I was as well. Losing a parent isn't easy. My girlfriend lost her father a few months before mine so we've both been grieving.

Only advice I can offer is to work towards remembering and celebrating the great times, forgive the bad, and to work towards personal closure as best as you can to anything which is lingering heavy in your heart. I wish I had done that more while he was still with us.

Difficult time. So sorry. :(

Repetition, repetition, repetition.

Also, when you read something try writing out what it means and draw a picture of it. They say that helps engage different parts of the brain and lets you remember it in different ways.

here ya go!

or for anyone else who is concerned about losing said voicemails. that article has options for android and IOS

Oh shit, thats disgusting. Proof? (Jk) but yeah that sucks. Hopefully by boyfriend you mean former boyfriend cus thats a yikes

here’s a link to manually save voice mails for IOS and android because you’re right. so easy to lose their voice forever.

Your title could be read as a suggestion not to delete the voicemail in mailboxes belonging to people you love.

I.e. their voicemails, not voicemails they have left you (as those would technically be your voicemails, from them).

Also, see nick. ;)

TIL people still use voicemail.

i am struggling, i found out my boyfriend had a titty picture of his ex on his phone sunday night as well. fuck man 😂

when it rains it pours. but expressing myself, and talking helps (hense this post!)

It's hard to study at once. Step by step. And I study every day what I learned that day. And to repeat what I want to memorize is the best way I've ever done.

thank you!!! just kinda screaming into the internet void, so it’s nice to have people understand and listen. now go hug ya mom! 🥰

Better yet, record them external from a phone system. Make copies, online and local.

The phone company PROBABLY isn't going to lose them, but you can't get any more.

This is an excellent tip. I have a voicemail or two saved from my mom, who thankfully is still here and in general good health.

I wish I had one from a few different people, but alas, I do not.

Also, OP, I'm sorry for what you're going through right now. (Internet hugs)

Damn bro. Reading this made me so sad. You poor soul, i hope youre doing okay

wat? lol i don’t understand what you’re getting at

thank you for this, it hit me how important ever moment i have left with her is.

thanks for the advice, and i’m glad you have that podcast still ❤️

When you need to conceal being sick, you might as well consider using this trick.

You shouldn't delete anyone else's voicemails, it's rude.