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Gus_Fu t1_j5ygz4n wrote
Reply to comment by RickytyMort in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
That is true. But that's the same outcome as the nothing state. So you're only barely late for your tea and sit down
RickytyMort t1_j5ygsov wrote
Reply to comment by Gus_Fu in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
And then you get stuck in a "Show me the evidence." loop.
hesalivejim t1_j5ygepf wrote
Reply to LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Can't remember who said it but reminds me of the quote "never argue with stupid people; they pull you down to their level and beat you with experience"
OrginalPeach t1_j5ygb6b wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Doesn’t mean that you loose either. I didn’t say that you said those things, I only said them to further my point. - apologies if there was confusion.
[deleted] t1_j5yfs7s wrote
Reply to comment by OrginalPeach in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
I never said that. Like I said, you can leave an argument for mental health or safety reasons, or really any reason you want. The issue that I’m saying is that that doesn’t mean the argument is over.
OrginalPeach t1_j5yfhhu wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Except I have the right to choose if I want to keep participating in an argument. I’m allowed to walk away, blocking is just the internets version of walking away from an argument. You can not force someone to participate in an argument with you. Telling someone they aren’t allowed to block you because you are in argument is ridiculous. You have no such control over anyone.
Edit: just saying this to further prove my point. You don’t need a reason to block anybody.
Gus_Fu t1_j5yfgya wrote
Reply to comment by RickytyMort in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
I always think that asking them "what would it take to change your mind?" Gives you an idea of whether or not it's worth engaging. If they say "nothing" then you're better off going home and having a nice cup of tea and a sit down
MysticMoteToter t1_j5ydnhl wrote
Reply to comment by SkyNightZ in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Well in the flat earther context, "It's hard to win an argument with a smart person, but it's damn near impossible to win an argument with a stupid person.” – Bill Murray
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klin0503 t1_j5ycz0y wrote
Reply to comment by xKitoo in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
For me, it's become like second nature. I always keep it in mind and remind myself to think about it, then eventually it became natural for me. That being said, I do find myself still doing it from time to time, but it's not to the degree where it's problematic.
I think in general, it's really just thinking about what you're going to say before saying it.
codechimpin t1_j5yc6nk wrote
Reply to LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
I disagree. If you are right, you should fight till the end!
[deleted] t1_j5yb52c wrote
Reply to comment by OrginalPeach in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Arguments don’t just go away because you don’t want to hear them. Pretending they’re not there because you can’t hear them means that you just don’t want to hear them, not that you’re “above” the argument. If you’re blocking someone else for your mental health or safety or whatever then sure that makes sense, but arguments continue to exist even when you thumb your nose at them.
xKitoo t1_j5yb3ba wrote
Reply to comment by klin0503 in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
I believe I'm somewhat similar. Do you have any tips on how to have it under controll? Because more often than not I do it unconsciously and catch myself after, that I was rather obnoxious for very trivial things.
jrc83 t1_j5y9c2n wrote
Reply to comment by SkyNightZ in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Funny. I see carnists do that more often. Make terrible points.
Psychological-Good52 t1_j5y8pqo wrote
Reply to LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Love them enough to let them go
SkyNightZ t1_j5y8jwc wrote
Reply to comment by jrc83 in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Vegans are some of the worst at it.
Obviously it's not a single 'ideaology'
But when people try and argue for environmental conservation, morality of animal slaughter and nutrition all at the same time, they stumble over themselves and make terrible points.
They then refuse to engage and start calling you names.
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Reply to comment by OrginalPeach in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
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SkyNightZ t1_j5y86xg wrote
Reply to comment by outtyn1nja in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Depends. This situation can be caused by either debater being close minded.
For example, arguing with a flat earther can make you angry. Not saying you should get angry, but I see it happening.
PapaBradford t1_j5y7ikx wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
...why would you bring that up?
Kaiisim t1_j5y5g5o wrote
Reply to LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Being correct rarely ever matters to anyone. They want to be right.
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Sentsuizan t1_j5y570l wrote
Reply to LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
The block button exists for a reason. People will definitely come at you and egg you on to argue with them and I'm like I don't give a fuck about entertaining you
jen_17 t1_j5y4rkw wrote
Reply to comment by jenajwalters in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
Oh I like that one
jenajwalters t1_j5y3orz wrote
Reply to comment by jen_17 in LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
And another favorite by Paine "To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead."
cheetonian t1_j5ygz8n wrote
Reply to LPT: It is valuable to know when to stop arguing with other people and simply let them be wrong by Dismal_Body_2731
There is a fine line here. Let everyone be wrong and suddenly Trump is president.