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srfrosky t1_j6flzwz wrote

This is odd advice. The person from whom I learned to not be jealous in a relationship was the first person I truly loved and remain attached to despite no longer being a couple. I learned that possessiveness has zero to do with love. In fact it’s almost the opposite. Consider this: would you love a nice or nephew less if they didn’t care that much for you? If you answer yes, then you know your love is conditional. Then carry that over to other people/relations. There you will see if you can love without the condition of reciprocity. And if you can’t, there is your problem: you haven’t learned to love. That means your affection is transactional. Once love is not transactional, then you can still feel sad if you are not loved back, but still be able to love and care for someone all the same.

So almost the opposite of “detachment”. I’ve learned that the key is to destroy possessiveness, not the emotional attachment to someone. Let others be free to love and care freely. Then chose to either love them or not for who they are, not by how well they love you back. Destroy the requirement of reciprocity.
Destroy transactional affection.
That’s how you learn to love, and do so jealousy free!

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MamiGletr t1_j6fii6a wrote

Big problems in other countries can affected you and you should inform you about the subject because of this. Like buying cheap shirts hurts people in other places so you should know and learn abou this. I just see so much people that live outside of the USA and are all in on the newest hunter biden story, MnM mascot, gas stoves and some drag shows for Example. Or People talking about unimportant things Greta thunberg did but not about the environment.

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Alucard624 OP t1_j6fg3uk wrote

I use apple cider vinegar/water in a spray bottle as a natural deodorizer for my dog's coat. It's also a proactive/reactive killer of any flies or fleas. The next time your dog has the musty smell after exercising or a wet dog smell then try this solution! (but please make sure to cut it with water)

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