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glassdoorknob75 t1_j6jebpu wrote

Used as a system to find out what the person is ok talking about! Ach, thank you so much I finally understand this.... I've mistakenly thought of it as a flatly structured(?) pool of green-light questions but this is organized quite differently! Must be easy on the other person's nerves too because at this level the asker wouldn't look nervous for them to feel like they must answer..

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keepthetips t1_j6jdah0 wrote

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Flaky-Wallaby5382 t1_j6jbcia wrote

Thats why you go down the FORD progression. Eg Did you grow up around here? Are your kids nearby? They give a short answer move onto occupation. What do you do for work? Is that your passion? Get no engagement move onto recreation. What do you like to do for fun? Etc….

If its very one sided either you haven’t clicked on aomething they want to talk about or they dont want to talk to you. Knowing when to stop is just as imporntant. Exhaust the whole FORD then say it was great meeting you and immediately move on

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SweetCosmicPope t1_j6j8wyo wrote

It's largely going to be genetic. There are outlying issues, like if you have scoliosis or spina bifida which can cost you some inches, but otherwise it's going to be your genetics. One thing you can do to make sure you're growing is to make sure you're eating a healthy diet and getting plenty of exercise. Stimulate your muscles and your bones without damaging them. And get plenty of sleep at night.

I've also heard you get get a little bit extra with gravity boots or an inversion table, but I'm a little dubious on those claims.

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glassdoorknob75 t1_j6j863s wrote

Thanks for explaining! I've always felt anxious talking/having others talk about these, seeing them as either very long stories or very short ones and very specific to the person themself. I'm gonna try to listen in on some conversations keeping the idea in mind :D

(By either very long or very short I imagine things'd be like: "at work everything just.... happens the way it must" "my mother tries to find herself a second husband and i'm worried because she really isn't the people type, she's got empty ideas about how living with people should work. but then so have i so anyways not in a place to judge but still worried......")

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flowerpanes t1_j6j7zvr wrote

I graduated right into a well paying job right after college-I stayed there till I left that community and my husband used his two year diploma to work his way up into upper municipal management in that field. Same with our oldest, they are working in their chosen field making good bucks after graduating with a two year diploma while our youngest has never been able to work in her field after getting her soft science degree (would need to have gone on for her masters) but she used that degree to help join the military as an officer, so I guess it was a positive life experience for her.

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keepthetips t1_j6j7jys wrote

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Maddcapp t1_j6j7ez7 wrote

There's only one medical treatment available to you that is proven to help. But you'll need a doctor and they will need to agree youre the right candidate. And that is Human Growth Hormone. According to the studies, it only works while youre still growing and your bones haven't fused in your back. I don't recommend this treatment, but it's something to look into if youre really worried about height. This is what Lionel Messi did to grow taller when he was a teenager.

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