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cool_calm_cloud t1_j6m82zp wrote
Pyrefirelight t1_j6m7q06 wrote
Reply to LPT Request: How to tell a friend that their negative talk (raging) needs to stop? by swishphish1
When a coworker of mine was going through it and sounding like he was depressed, I basically called him out on it but focused on giving tips for positive self talk.
1 is instead of saying something directly self-deprecating, say something positive but however sarcastic you want to be. Instead of "Why am I so stupid" for making a mistake, you should be saying "wOw, I aM sO sMaRt". It satisfies both the need to insult yourself and for compliments and is supposed to be a way to initially break that cycle of negative talk. I imagine that whole trend of slang being used ironically until it's used legitimately works similarly.
2 is to force him to give himself a specific, genuine compliment. When he's complaining about his bowling skill, go "Hey! Friend, give yourself a compliment. Say how good you are at this other task/sport." (Ideally he'll go "hell yeah I'm amazing at that!" But I don't know you or your friend)
Like I said, this worked to help pull a friend of mine out of it, and is something I try to keep in mind for myself as well, but everyone is different.
A more general universal truth is that it's a lot harder to break a bad habit if you don't have a good habit to replace it with. Encourage good habits and it will be easier to discourage bad ones.
EheroDC t1_j6m7apd wrote
Reply to LPT request: dating by Jimmynaz97K
I agree with the people saying the best thing to do is join group activities that interest you. But don't go with the goal of finding someone to date, go with the intention of having fun and hopefully making some friends.
Then go from there. If you meet someone you have chemistry with, great. If not, you've made some friends and enjoyed a hobby. It should help you relax and develop some social confidence.
wildadragon t1_j6m74le wrote
Some things I'll never forget, I'll take it to my grave and beyond. However those are the things I'll never share with another human being.
Rhopunzel t1_j6m6pv2 wrote
Reply to LPT Request: How can I actually grow taller? by korggyy
My dad told me that sleeping straight instead of curled up would make me taller. lol
bigby2010 t1_j6m6cb5 wrote
Yeah, no kidding. I have 3”x5” cards on my desk for this reason. Put a little circle next to the task, and tick it off when done.
[deleted] OP t1_j6m634z wrote
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keepthetips t1_j6m5roi wrote
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prophylaxitive t1_j6m5rac wrote
Reply to comment by Alucard624 in LPT: Kegel exercises not only prevent urinary incontinence and poor bladder control, but it also prevents erectile dysfunction and it enhances your orgasm during sex by Alucard624
I saw a comment from someone who was told by a doctor that over-exercising that area could give them a uti.
hellomayari OP t1_j6m5qx0 wrote
Reply to comment by heidismiles in LPT: To help control binge watching, stop in the middle of a new episode. by hellomayari
I used to be able to watch entire seasons in 1-2 days, but not anymore :( an episode or two is all we have time for most nights
charliesk9unit t1_j6m5qmx wrote
Reply to comment by poco in LPT: Don't break out small or corner windows if you lock your keys in your car. by Bailmage
Pay attention to the new cars out there and you will see them everywhere. Namely because most vehicles these days are optimized for the lowest drag coefficient and therefore tend to have a deep slope windshield and that in turn necessitate the need for a corner window.
hellomayari OP t1_j6m5l1p wrote
Reply to comment by ManthaCam in LPT: To help control binge watching, stop in the middle of a new episode. by hellomayari
Thanks! :)
hellomayari OP t1_j6m5ia4 wrote
Reply to comment by isthisnamestupid in LPT: To help control binge watching, stop in the middle of a new episode. by hellomayari
So true! However many parts you want and have time for.
Dismal_Needleworker9 t1_j6m591k wrote
Reply to LPT: When overthinking, keep your eye balls still and stare at something. immediately your mind will stop ruminating. by Adrenalin_dasher4454
I observed this too. The thing is to remind yourself everytime you fall into overthinking. Works 2/10 for me
Beverly_Fortuner t1_j6m57o3 wrote
Reply to comment by Night_Owl_16 in LPT: Tips from a frequent flyer by Creatrix
Sounds like OP flew on regional/budget carriers for short hauls.
I’ll pitch in:
- if you had status with an airline before Covid and you’re at risk of losing it in a WFH world ask customer service to extend it a bit longer if you anticipate any travel again in the future. Worked for me on 3/4 carriers, though my expectations were lower for the American carrier who tends to money grub their patrons.
Westbrook_Level t1_j6m4hwk wrote
Reply to LPT: When overthinking, keep your eye balls still and stare at something. immediately your mind will stop ruminating. by Adrenalin_dasher4454
This seems to actually work!
BardicNA t1_j6m4bj6 wrote
Reply to comment by thegoldenpinecone in LPT: While cussing may feel good, it feels distracting for your conversation partner and detracts from the effectiveness of your communication. Try to use descriptive, clean words. You will come across as much more understandable and respectable. by [deleted]
I don't want to have to rant to my church group Wednesday night about you saying that unGodly word.
"It feels distracting for your conversation partner." What a generalizing fucking statement there, OP. What, someone in a professional setting fling in an F bomb in conversation with you? I feel distracted when my "conversation partner" is too sensitive to hear a little colorful language that isn't directed to them.
Your next LPT is going to be something about not hitting someone in the mouth on company property.
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wouterv101 t1_j6m447l wrote
Lmao, delete this dumb post. Seems like HR did the right thing
[deleted] t1_j6m2pcg wrote
Reply to LPT: Don't break out small or corner windows if you lock your keys in your car. by Bailmage
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gmanriemann t1_j6m0ukn wrote
Reply to LPT: Always keep a few small bills/change in your nightstand for when the tooth fairy comes. If you forget at night, it saves you from rummaging in the morning and potentially ruining the fun. Saved me this morning! by BeerAndHockey
The tooth fairy pays you, not the other way round. I thought that was common knowledge.
DavidANaida t1_j6m09de wrote
Reply to comment by DownTooParty in LPT: Don't break out small or corner windows if you lock your keys in your car. by Bailmage
Sounds like a cool way to have your vehicle stolen or moved into by a homeless person
Quinquilharia t1_j6lzdba wrote
A degree does not magically transform you into a good employee, nor does it automatically launch you into a higher strata of pay.
What will carry you through your career is good skills.
arlondiluthel t1_j6lz7tf wrote
Reply to comment by serotoninzero in LPT: Colour code your USB cables with cable ties. by ikothsowe
To be fair, my primary computer is a laptop, because I travel a lot for work. I have an external hard drive that I don't take with me when I travel, a webcam that I unplug when I'm not using it, an Xbox controller and a flight stick (which I unplug when not in use). Then, I have a USB KVM switch so I can connect my keyboard, mouse, and headset to both my personal and work computers.
CoffeemonsterNL t1_j6m85k8 wrote
Reply to comment by Night_Owl_16 in LPT: Tips from a frequent flyer by Creatrix
Worse, all the hot beverages from economy class will spill onto the business class passengers in front of the plane. Can't do that for those big-paying frequent flyers.
Time for a petition to have the planes descend/fall tail-first in emergency settings to avoid this scenario.