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ProfessionalPiece25 t1_ja80lxl wrote

This could be tough, but certainly you can do it. Everyone who has advised you to find another competitive activity is correct. But you are also dealing with a significant change in self-identity. You also need to answer the question, “Who shall I be now?” First, you are an adult; you are, presumably, no longer a student in limbo between adolescence and adulthood. Career comes to the forefront. What are you going to be professionally? Perhaps becoming a spouse and parent will be part of your new identity. The beauty of the situation is that YOU get to choose. And get used to a shift in identity. It will happen several times over what hopefully will be a long and happy life. Good luck!

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genkieveryday t1_ja80dzn wrote

I feel for ypour wife, In a couple, the one with the best cleaning standards always suffer.
Just like you, I am cleaning deep every 2 weeks, however i like to keep the house tidy.
And my wife is incredibly messy, nothing is ever put in its place, wraping are left in the sink instead of the trash, there is constantly some cisors out with food on it, clothes on the floor in every rooms, and so on.

She feels like we need a cleaning lady, no we just need to keep things tidy up every day.
To her its an insurmontable challenge, like i am talking about doing an marathon.

Well, i just end up cleaning up, a lot, every day.

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ClassyBroadMSP t1_ja7ztf9 wrote

Ok, so you are at least middle-aged, as am I. The rules have changed, my dude.

OP realizes that he and the gf don't have the same standards. He wants to learn how to meet those standards, which is absolutely lovely (well done, OP!). Your suggestion is to put the responsibility on the girlfriend by asking her to continually pointing out things she isn't happy with. Today the counters, tomorrow the penis. There is no good outcome here.

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