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keepthetips t1_jacoanv wrote

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keepthetips t1_jacmamv wrote

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Theletterkay t1_jaclxly wrote

Talk to her about end of the day chires that you can do to make up for it. If she likes the trash too go out before bed, or a quick vacuum of high traffic areas, mop around eating/cooking areas, doing final check of locked doors before bed, walking pet before bed etc.

Good on you for wanting to be a partner and searching out solutions for a problem before it becomes a fight. My husband wont lift a finger to do a damn thing without me begging him for days to do it. Then he likes to yell about how im always nagging him. So yeah. Dont be him.

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Eas_Mackenzie t1_jaclevz wrote

She wants to hear this.

Tell her you noticed, tell her your intentions to improve to meet her standard. She will tell you what she would like you to do. If you show the initiative first, without her asking She will be over the moon.

Also by asking her you get an idea of the degree if clean that matters to her.

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