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Tvmouth t1_jaddrnw wrote

Maybe I misunderstood, this is not a workplace issue where you have no control over the proximity to people that constantly require validation? People you choose to be around will have their own liberties, by all means, share your life in a way that isn't toxic, with people who aren't toxic. Duh? Are you 12 and still enslaved to family culture? Small Town mentality types blocking you into a defensive corner about your value to a small portion of the world population? Sorry if I misunderstood.

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lesterfazwazzle t1_jaddasm wrote

I’d love to see more useful responses.

Just saying “cut them for your life” or “ignore them” or “<insert snide comment>” might work for some situations but I’d love a potential strategy for people such as work teammates, carpool buddies, relatives… for whom it’d be great to maintain/develop an actual productive relationship

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Tiara2002 t1_jadd5g1 wrote

  1. Shocking therapy. If you do makeup, go out once completely without it. In most cases, you would see that people's reaction to you won't change. Because they don't care.

  2. Get a notebook and fill it with jokes about your acne. Don't mind if they're bad, you don't have to share them.

  3. If you don't actively work on treating it, start doing this. Knowing that you're trying will help you

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keepthetips t1_jadcpc7 wrote

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the_original_Retro t1_jadcl10 wrote

This isn't someone trying "more" to be your friend". Dunno how you possibly spun that out of it.

This is someone that's either insecure, hyper-competitive, or a narcissist, and they think they have to beat you rather than support you.

Friends congratulate each other on their successes. Sure there might be some joshing or occasional trash-talking involved, but at their heart, if they're not toxic, they're HAPPY for you. They're not trying to outclass you unless they have problems of their own.

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AethericEye OP t1_jadbhzn wrote

That's still the tricky bit, I think. I need it to be certified that he has received money, not just an envelope... an envelope could have contained anything or nothing.

I need it to be impossible for him to claim that we haven't sent the money or that it wasn't received.

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joncppl t1_jadb8rb wrote

Hydrogen peroxide is great at dissolving earwax off of any metal grills that aren't removable. Dip the grill in (but no more) for a few minutes, wipe with paper towel, and let dry.

Now if someone knows how to make my faux-suede over-ear headphone pads less stinky, I'm all ears.

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