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Hidden40001 t1_jbx4sft wrote
Reply to comment by qwertyuiiop145 in LPT request: how to become a less judgey person? by newmama1991
I judge but then I remember it’s meaningless to care because it’s just water. It’s all recyclable and it’s impossible for me change any of it.
In the past I’ve tried helping people only to be shunned or refused. When I ask for help it evaporates.
I don’t fucking care about any of you.
Hidden40001 t1_jbx4hs2 wrote
Reply to comment by yevizone in LPT request: how to become a less judgey person? by newmama1991
If none of this has any meaning, and I don’t feel very compelled to give it any meaning, why the fuck are people so upset if I chose to end it?
Yodelehhehe t1_jbwn516 wrote
Reply to comment by ahewc11 in LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
Took way to long to scroll to get to the correct answer. It costs you two weeks to do the courteous thing that doesn’t burn a bridge. You never know who you might need or work with again down the line, even if it’s not back with the company/job you hate.
Feeling_Ad9540 t1_jbwjj0w wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
You said you just started this job? I assume you are still in the training phase? I would offer to stay a few days just to be polite. In reality, they probably don't want your two weeks of you're still in training. Employer wouldn't want to invest in someone leaving.
crushv50 t1_jbw3mvo wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
If you can afford it consider not giving notice but saying you can't start for a few days. Vaction/ppo is often and joke and it's a chance to have some personal time. It's doubtful they will mind or even notice. Just be there on time the first day you say you will be able to work.
The-Unkindness t1_jbvy35u wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
Depends what you do.
If you're a burger flipper, no one cares.
If you work in my industry, it would set you back in the long term dramatically.
In fact the Great Resignation of 21/22 has had a lot of negative effects on certain workers. Because many quickly jumped around chasing money instead of good jobs, and now companies like mine won't touch them. So they're stuck either at shitty companies or taking pay cuts to try and reestablish their reputation.
But a server? Or if you work in retail? No one will care what you do.
veggeroni t1_jbvshi7 wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
When I offer people a position, I completely understand if they need to give a 2 week notice. However, if they choose not to, it's completely understandable because they must have a good reason for leaving otherwise they wouldn't interview.
Amstaffsrule t1_jbvlbtp wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
I would work the two week notice. You never know who knows whom, and I wouldn't want to burn any bridges.
healingstateofmind t1_jbvckcr wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
The answer depends on whether you think you're going to use the employer for anything in the future. Then, is that something worth delaying your new job?
Given that you just started, the answer to both questions is probably no.
Often, when you give two weeks notice companies will set your hours scheduled to zero or fire you on the spot. YMMV
SpiritualGap3255 t1_jbuyw2h wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
You could just give notice and then get a doctor to sign you off on stress leave for the last 2 weeks. Just tell them that the hon w as killing you and you need out, they'll give you a generic note and job literally done. Now start with your new employer, no law says you can't work two jobs.
DOVAHDAEDRICBORN OP t1_jbuyepk wrote
Haunting-Ad-9790 t1_jbuybjv wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
Employers never give 2 weeks notice when they fire you.
ahewc11 t1_jbuxqor wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
At the end of the day, all you really have is your reputation.
Yes, give the two weeks.
You never know how your actions will follow you.
DOVAHDAEDRICBORN OP t1_jbuv6xt wrote
NYSenseOfHumor t1_jbuv1vt wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
>Does it look bad If just quit my new job for another job with out 2 weeks notice?
Look bad to who and do you care?
>But then again would interviewer suspect of me of not being trustable/good worker?
Say you can work out a mutually agreeable start date.
>And should I say I recently just starting working there this week?
No
DOVAHDAEDRICBORN OP t1_jbuumff wrote
Reply to comment by RlCKJAMESBlTCH in LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
Yes I wasn't told anything by word. I am just not trying to look as if I'm irresponsible.
RlCKJAMESBlTCH t1_jbuufpj wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
There is no obligation to give any notice if you do not have a written employment agreement that requires it (which i assume you do not have)
keepthetips t1_jbuu5qw wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
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RhinoG91 t1_jbuprf1 wrote
Reply to comment by newmama1991 in LPT request: how to become a less judgey person? by newmama1991
I mean not really. I don’t mean in the sense of like I don’t give 2 fucks about you, but more in the context of live and let live. For example if someone wears something that you think is offensive (passing judgement) you are the one with the problem not them. think about what it is that is upsetting you and internalize it. Think about what it’s like in their shoes, and why they find it acceptable. Then think about what it’s ACTUALLY doing to you. it’s not physically affecting you so why bother with even spending energy fixating on it? You do you type of thing.
Competitive-Pop6530 t1_jbt0iln wrote
Having an amazing sense of humility has helped me immensely. That being said this is one of the dumbest questions I’ve come across in years. Nonetheless, humility enables me to avoid judgement. Sarcasm helps as well. Comments from the low IQ population are welcomed.
_Dry_View_ t1_jbshvv4 wrote
Being judgamental is not a bad thing. Being too judgamental is. For me, I like to take some time and evaluate if my first reaction was fair or not. But if I think my first reaction was fair, I'm not feeling bad for thinking that way.
Sufficient-Painter-4 t1_jbsfim3 wrote
Reply to comment by spacemanspiff8655 in LPT request: how to become a less judgey person? by newmama1991
Spacemanspliff 🌲
___sillysatyal___ t1_jbsap90 wrote
Learn Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. It will help you get better at identifying and learning from judgments (including self-judgments and judgments others throw at you) to build self-awareness, empathy and empathic communication skills.
Mysterious_Fennel_18 t1_jbxuntw wrote
Reply to LPT REQUEST Should let the new employer know I can start asap without saying I need to submit a 2 weeks notice? It's also a new job that I hate and would like to leave asap? by DOVAHDAEDRICBORN
Depends on the job. I can’t get ready for a new hire ASAP, HR and IT need the lead time, so two weeks isn’t just the old time.