A body in motion tends to stay in motion.

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Anytime. Thanks for pretend to be some type of robotic grim reaper to protect your insecurities from anything that you might have to show you care for and risk having your ego bruised.

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There’s a happy medium here OP

Exactly. You can also do both. “We’ll talk about this later, but know I am upset by this.”

A lot of times it doesn’t make sense to bring it up later. “Hey, this thing you did yesterday upsets me.” And the other person will be like, “I don’t remember?” They’re going to think of you as emotionally immature or unpredictable.

I don't always know if I'm right though

Soemtimes it can take a while to process and figure out how you feel or why you feel that way.

This is true. Even if they deserve a go fuck yourself going in cool and rational garners much better results.

Life lesson I'm sure we've all learned at least once. Some of us, more times.

Not every feeling needs a conversation. Sometimes letting it go can be self care.

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The phrase, "Choose your battles" comes to mind. With some people, I play the long game, which can be infinitely more satisfying and poignant than an immediate response. In some cases, you might find it's not worth the effort in the first place.

I agree with OP. You’re a person to. Question the one who is walking on top of you no matter how awkward the corner might be. In my case it was a very civil and fair environment, I was not wronged in the end.

Once something is spoken it can’t never be taken back. You can always discuss the next day and tell them what needs to be said.

I always get very nervous when standing in a line. I’ve been cut before multiple times and didn’t say anything. I think a lot of people have. One day I overcame this and asked a woman who walked to the front of the line and got served first, “excuse me but can you please just let me know why you cut the line” and she told me she didn’t even realize and she apologized, the server apologized and I was served after that.

I too am part of the old too soon, smart too late club

Yeah definitely use words before smacking someone at the Oscars or something like that

It's a balance. You should make it known as early as possible without being overly emotional.

Depending on the person that could be a couple seconds or a couple days.

That’s another way to look at it too technically 😅😅

Exactly. The OP's description is too vague to comment on their particular situation but being a slave to your feelings and impulsively telling others to go f**k themselves is generally bad advice.

The real LPT.

Very important lesson if the person usually does that. Op’s tip is for people who never do that.

No, it's better to be a Karen.

/s

Yeah, I would say that doesn't sound healthy. Honestly something I would think to talk to a therapist about if you are able of course.