Recent comments in /f/LifeProTips
Dhunt04 t1_jd5m7le wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
The responses to this post make me very sad. Wishing you all happiness.
sesamesnapsinhalf t1_jd5k33n wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
Caveat: Robocalls and spam emails.
PhoneQuomo t1_jd5jm2x wrote
Reply to comment by mbulsht in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
This philosophy is from a privileged life, most likely a rich kid who can/has been insulated from the bad people out there and can afford to ignore them.
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wecangetbetter t1_jd5ilr5 wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
LPT - Trust but verify.
I trust that people aren't going to fuck me over. But I always do my due diligence to make sure my interests are protected just in case.
upurcanal t1_jd5ignt wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
Very cool advice.
mbulsht t1_jd5hzz7 wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
Everybody lies. Those that claim they don't and truly mean it are only lying to themselves.
Yes, you shouldn't be a dickhead when people are sharing personal stories, and you shouldn't act as though everyone is out to get you. It does you no good to be the "debbie downer" of your friend group. But there is nothing wrong with preparing for the worst in a given situation. A cynical outlook doesn't form in a vacuum, such things are often born from experience.
The world is a harsh place, people around you are going to try and take advantage of you. It's better to be guarded than to just go around assuming the world is kind.
"Your perception is your reality" is a very naïve way of approaching the world.
This way of thinking is a great way to trick yourself into having a relationship with controlling narcissist. And that's not me being cynical. It's me speaking from experience. The place that cynicism comes from.
[deleted] t1_jd5digl wrote
Reply to comment by vedderer in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
Came to post this. The strength of this is that it is the opposite of the straw man. By strengthening your opponent's position, you strengthen your own.
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cabalavatar t1_jd5d44f wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
This is a wonderful recipe to make yourself vulnerable to narcissists and other con artists. I'm sorry, but it's overly optimistic and naïve advice, IMO.
Rebel_reigns1 t1_jd5c7j6 wrote
Reply to comment by LongBongJohnSilver in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
Then I will think you didn’t close your mouth properly
trainbrain27 t1_jd5bwpy wrote
Reply to LPT: Tip on the subtotal by boomeroni123
"8% will be added to the bill so our servers can earn a living wage and benefits"
That ought to be illegal. A $12 sandwich with a mandatory 8% is a $13 sandwich, anything else is chicanery.
For that matter, all prices should include all unavoidable fees. If I need to pay a title fee to buy the car, put it on the STICKER. If I need to pay local, state, and national sales tax, put it on the SHELF! If I need to pay extra so you can pay your employees, PUT IT IN THE ITEM PRICE!
Other countries do this. Some even have round prices like £5, which means I hand the cashier a £5 note and we're done. No 4.99, 19.99+ tax, fees, and digging through a purse and/or change drawer, DONE!
Spitfir4 t1_jd5a7q6 wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
I operate on a philosophy assume ignorance before malice.
If you say something offensive I assume you didn't mean to offend me the first time.
Fun-Alternative9440 t1_jd591tv wrote
Reply to comment by LongBongJohnSilver in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
I'm quite the cynical skeptic. You don't tell me what to do.
LongBongJohnSilver t1_jd58dl6 wrote
Reply to comment by Fun-Alternative9440 in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
What are you, cynical? You should just believe me.
Alain_Durwoden t1_jd575iz wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
What's the saying? Don't explain with malice what could be attributed to ignorance?
mshorts t1_jd56mph wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
If you assume incompetence, you will seldom be disappointed.
boomeroni123 OP t1_jd53dtk wrote
Reply to comment by ChrisGeritol in LPT: Tip on the subtotal by boomeroni123
I just calculate 20% real quick by moving the decimal over one space to the left, times 2, and then round down.
ChrisGeritol t1_jd53789 wrote
Reply to LPT: Tip on the subtotal by boomeroni123
Lol, places around here add a minimum of 15% if they add the tip and the "suggested" tips usually start at 20%. Why not 150% or 1000%?
[deleted] t1_jd534qe wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
If you think you're out here for my good then you're lying to yourself.
vedderer t1_jd530oy wrote
Reply to comment by Cicerothesage in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
Oh, yes, thanks for sharing this!
[deleted] t1_jd520mx wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
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DonDonStudent t1_jd5pudn wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
That’s why eating fast food is getting more value for the same amount. Consistent portions and standards. A drink A side