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Aeneis t1_jdx9pny wrote

Yeah. I usually wash off anything I can see before putting dishes in the dishwasher. The dishwasher is for getting rid of any germs, etc. that I can't see. There's some old-school Foul Bachelor Frog stuff going on in the comments here, lol. I think maybe dish detergent commercials have convinced an entire generation to put food-caked dishes in the washer.

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DrugOfGods t1_jdx9155 wrote

Enlist the help of the two older kids (within their capacity). For me, I had a 5 and 3 year old when my 3rd was born. The 5 year old was especially helpful with simple things that become much harder when you're outnumbered.

Not supervising the baby obviously, but basic tasks like fetching something from another room or keeping the middle kid entertained while you're occupied with the baby.

I may have gotten lucky, but hopefully your older 2 will be similarly helpful.

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vendetta2115 OP t1_jdx7juj wrote

I had no idea that a simple LPT like this would be so controversial. A huge percentage of people have little signs on their dishwashers that say “clean” and “dirty” that you can flip around. Like this one. This saves a person from buying one of those and is more reliable. And if you pre-rinse your dishes (like me) it can be difficult to tell whether they’re clean or not.

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vendetta2115 OP t1_jdx6fwd wrote

I wash most of the visible stuff off of my dishes before putting them in there. You don’t rinse your plates and glasses before you put them in the dishwasher? That’s a really common thing. I’d actually wager that most people do it.

I don’t understand how everyone is so baffled that this could possibly be an issue. If you go on Amazon, there are dozens of these clean/dirty signs. This method does the same thing but you don’t have to buy anything, plus it’s more reliable.

Being a renter, I don’t have a top-of-the-line dishwasher that will clean any dish no matter how dirty it is. If I don’t pre-rinse dishes, they have a good chance of still having gunk on them when the cycle is done, not to mention all that gunk being spread around by the water.

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SmilingForStrangers t1_jdx6a8w wrote

Can confirm. I went from one of my dream company in a field that interests me to a field that I’ve never thought about working in.

Dream company (roughly 30k employees in my area) treated me like garbage. The new, smaller company (around 1000 employees across the US) pays me more, gives me unlimited PTO, let’s me work at home, and has great additional benefits like paying for my gym membership.

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panthergold2k3 t1_jdx5yqr wrote

I am in this situation right now. I am in my career of choice with intentions of working for big time entertainment companies, but I just took a corporate job where my bosses are understanding, i have flexible hours, and room to grow and lead a team with a terrific salary. I am reconsidering my career path and may stay here for most of my career. Being valued and respected goes a long way!

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vendetta2115 OP t1_jdx5uqj wrote

Do all you heathens just throw your caked-on plates directly in the dishwasher? I pre-wash most of the visible stuff off of my dishes before putting them in the dishwasher. I asked around and everyone I asked also does this, it’s a normal thing.

They even sell magnets that says “clean/dirty.” This is not some weird thing unique to me.

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ChrisGeritol t1_jdx4y93 wrote

Are you w-2 employee of the firm that has you contracted to the company or are you 1099? Do you have any benefits such as vacation, holiday, or sick pay? 401k match? Life, health, dental insurance that you don't pay 100% of the cost for?

I worked as an IT consultant many, many years ago. I got paid 80% of bill rate. 7.65% went directly to the company side of FICA. The company had to pay for my workman's comp and unemployment insurance. So, when all was said and done, they got a small, but fair, percentage of my wages. My consulting company had an office and at least 3 staff members. They had costs and profit to meet, so it was an equitable arrangement. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone offering 80% of bill rate these days.

The idea that your recruiter makes 30k a year off you is absurd. The recruiter's company may, but the recruiter himself doesn't. Also, the recruiting company has costs too. They aren't a charity.

Your options are:

  1. Become an employee of the company you are working at. However, they are also going to make a profit off you, otherwise why would they be in business?

  2. Go somewhere else with a higher bill rate.

  3. Talk to the company you contract through and ask for a raise.

  4. Find another consulting firm, which will require you work elsewhere.

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