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tonydanzascaulk t1_jdxuodm wrote
Reply to LPT request: Going from two children (both in kindergarten) to three, what should I (the father) prepare for? Any LPTs from those who have gone through the same? by Ekkiftang
I assume, based on your wording, that the two you already have are twins? I am in a similar situation. Twins first, and the third is younger. Mine are closer in age than yours; my twins are now 6 and the younger is 4. My experience was that the third was way more work than I was prepared for. Everyone always said oh, twins, that must be so much work, you must be exhausted, etc. The reality was the twins were ok to manage because that’s all we knew at the time. When our life got insane was when we added the third at a different developmental stage.
I don’t know that I have any great LPTs for you, except be forgiving of yourself, your partner, and your older two. Things will be hard and you will all do, say, and think things that you don’t mean. It’s ok. The laundry/cleaning/etc will get done, eventually. You will all be tired. You will cry. You will question your sanity and your ability to handle this. It’s ok. Lean on whatever support system you have in place and absolutely do not feel bad about asking for help! Show all your kids that you genuinely love them and care about them and everything else will take care of itself. Best of luck!
Tittle42 t1_jdxu7jv wrote
Reply to comment by vendetta2115 in LPT: put dishwasher detergent in your dishwasher as soon as you empty the clean dishes and you’ll never have to guess whether not the dishes are clean. If the detergent tray is empty, they’re clean; if it’s full, they’re dirty. by vendetta2115
Im not emptying the dishwasher until it’s time to load it
kdthex01 t1_jdxsc09 wrote
Reply to LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
So much this x 1000 million. I got caught up in the “who got the most prestigious offer” rat race during the recruiting cycle and “won”.
One of the jobs I turned down went to a friend - they invested in her and she went on to become a industry leader in our field - mostly because she had time and support to contribute to open source projects and standards orgs. Meanwhile I was maxing billable hours at the expense of my health.
dovahkiitten16 t1_jdxs6wm wrote
Reply to LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
I never understood the dream company thing. Dream field or dream position? Sure. But companies come and go and some will treat you better or worse than others, and at the end of the day you’ll always be expendable. You don’t owe them loyalty let alone treating one as a dream.
I remember when I decided on my program for school all my older relatives would only ask me “who I wanted to work for” and then act like I was wasting money because I didn’t have a specific company I wanted to work for.
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WechTreck t1_jdxqg4d wrote
Reply to LPT: If you’re a world-famous football player move to the USA for your retirement by Crocodile_Banger
They will get bothered. But it's random street crime, nothing personal
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gsrv1234 t1_jdxpvwe wrote
Reply to LPT: If you’re a world-famous football player move to the USA for your retirement by Crocodile_Banger
You presume that they want to walk through any country’s street as long as nobody bothers them. You also presume that once players retire and their popularity starts to fade away, they won’t miss the attention they once had.
scalyskater t1_jdxpm64 wrote
Reply to comment by CdnBison in LPT Keep a box of tampons and a bottle of ibuprofen in your home. by [deleted]
You should read more than just the title. I clearly said tampons and or pads.
[deleted] t1_jdxphm0 wrote
Reply to LPT: Chip bag tip by Murrinater
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FateInTheRain t1_jdxpf7n wrote
Reply to LPT: if you hear any animal noises above, below, or in your walls, or smell any weird smells - have someone come check it out ASAP. by [deleted]
Yup, rats can get into your dryer ducts and die. It is a smelly endeavor.
CdnBison t1_jdxpbkc wrote
Dude here, but I know some women don’t / can’t use tampons, so might want to keep pads on hand (either as a secondary option or on their own).
one-man-alone t1_jdxpbft wrote
Reply to comment by GoofySwe776 in LPT: Chip bag tip by Murrinater
Are you saying a family size bag lasts you more than one serving?
Suppertime420 t1_jdxoazg wrote
burchy_ t1_jdxnsia wrote
Reply to LPT: clean your stovetop after using the oven. The heat loosens grime for easy removal by Cando232
Or….wash your stovetop after use and the mess doesn’t become caked on grime that takes 3 digit temps to break it back down to a removable state….? LMAO
Friasand t1_jdxnfjp wrote
Reply to LPT: if you hear any animal noises above, below, or in your walls, or smell any weird smells - have someone come check it out ASAP. by [deleted]
I’ve had the smell of cat pee in my apartment for months. Landlord refuses to do anything about it. I don’t have a cat in my apartment…
Stoon_Slar OP t1_jdxnbpc wrote
Reply to comment by ChrisGeritol in LPT. If you have a stressful job that makes it difficult to sleep because you just can't stop thinking about it, name your Hue™️ bulb powered nightlight 'Brain'. When you're ready to lay your head down on your pillow, say, "Hey Siri*, turn off brain." [* no doubt works with Alexa also 😉) by Stoon_Slar
You should turn your brain off. 🫤
Stoon_Slar OP t1_jdxn74a wrote
Reply to comment by lifeaintsocool in LPT. If you have a stressful job that makes it difficult to sleep because you just can't stop thinking about it, name your Hue™️ bulb powered nightlight 'Brain'. When you're ready to lay your head down on your pillow, say, "Hey Siri*, turn off brain." [* no doubt works with Alexa also 😉) by Stoon_Slar
It's the wife's side lamp. It has actually made her smile a couple times turning it off. She works in Social Services and has for many years. I'll likely change it to something else when she finds it annoying but in the mean time, it has played a tiny part in her settling down for sleep. ¯¯\(ツ)/¯
vendetta2115 OP t1_jdxmy95 wrote
Reply to comment by Bart-MS in LPT: put dishwasher detergent in your dishwasher as soon as you empty the clean dishes and you’ll never have to guess whether not the dishes are clean. If the detergent tray is empty, they’re clean; if it’s full, they’re dirty. by vendetta2115
This is more for people who share a living space. If person A runs the dishwasher and then person B opens the dishwasher a couple hours later, it may not be apparent whether the dishes are clean or dirty. Glasses in particular are difficult because I always wash out the glass before putting it in the dishwasher, so it looks “clean” but really isn’t.
vendetta2115 OP t1_jdxmj5u wrote
Reply to comment by Tittle42 in LPT: put dishwasher detergent in your dishwasher as soon as you empty the clean dishes and you’ll never have to guess whether not the dishes are clean. If the detergent tray is empty, they’re clean; if it’s full, they’re dirty. by vendetta2115
Sorry but that’s gross. Why not just put them in the dishwasher? It’s better than a sink full of dirty dishes. It looks bad, smells bad, and makes more work because you have to handle the dishes twice instead of once.
fh3131 t1_jdxmakn wrote
Reply to LPT: If you’re a world-famous football player move to the USA for your retirement by Crocodile_Banger
Thanks, OP. I'll keep that in mind.
Boss_Key_Yacht_ t1_jdxmaet wrote
Reply to LPT: If you’re a world-famous football player move to the USA for your retirement by Crocodile_Banger
Ummm Americans know who Messi, Ronaldo and Neymar are …
vendetta2115 OP t1_jdxm9yt wrote
Reply to comment by Tittle42 in LPT: put dishwasher detergent in your dishwasher as soon as you empty the clean dishes and you’ll never have to guess whether not the dishes are clean. If the detergent tray is empty, they’re clean; if it’s full, they’re dirty. by vendetta2115
I don’t understand: why do you have a full load of dirty dishes to put into the dishwasher?
I don’t think this is the burn you think it is. I slowly fill up my dishwasher as I use dishes, always keeping my kitchen sink empty.
What kind of like do YOU live?
keepthetips t1_jdxm5ez wrote
Reply to LPT: If you’re a world-famous football player move to the USA for your retirement by Crocodile_Banger
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repub2 t1_jdxwvw2 wrote
Reply to LPT: clean your stovetop after using the oven. The heat loosens grime for easy removal by Cando232
Or just use baking soda.