Complete crap shoot depending on the cop honestly. And of course depends on if you are white or not.

I currently do not have my drivers license. Let's just say I learn how to drive but dont have my license and incase of emergency is this okay?

Seriously. A lot of stupid people out there make it seem like this is so hard. Wheel make go left and right. Peddles make go and stop. Do these 4 things together and bam you are driving. Only other real tip is when you do get out on the road....since we are discussing stupid people...always keep your eye out. Always drive under the assumption everyone around you is a complete fucking moron who could possibly do the stupidest thing you have ever seen in your life at any second.

Ya I hear it's not that bad apparently. Hopefully I can start by tomorrow

If you’re speaking of time… it can only be linear… so this technically isn’t correct.

Time only moves forward, so whenever the grieving process begins or ends is still linear as it can only move forward with time

If you are learning in a automatic and ARE in a big empty parking lot...just stay calm man. You can't really fuck it up unless you just slam down the gas and refuse to let up. Just take your time and get the hang of it. Despite how hard some people seem to make it driving a car is way easier then you would think.

Any other tips, advice you would like to add I would appreciate the info !

I learned how to drive when I was 16 (driving is legal here at the age of 17). The basics I got in an hour (stick shift), practice makes you better. I think after maybe 3 or 4 lessons I would have been able to drive someone to a hospital. Can only speak for myself, though. If you learn to drive a car with automatic transmission, it would be much faster.

I dont wana drive or the money. I said I wanted to learn how to drive for emergencies. For my own family cause an ambulance I'm sure would cost alot.

Do you think a car will help you make more money? If not than maybe you shouldn't get a car. Knowing how to drive is important though.

Any youtube videos you can recommend me ? Definitely will help me

A big empty parking lot is great too. Thats where I learned the basics.

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Once you learn to drive, the car won't matter too much as long as both are normal cars without any special operating requirements. I'd recommend learning on an automatic transmission because it's much easier. Learn manual transmission later (or not).

That is a good idea definitely will go to the country side and learn how to drive there

How long do you think it would take me to learn how to drive to take someone to the hospital?

Ask someone with an old car to teach you somewhere in the countryside. Depending on where you live and how common it is, learn to drive stick. So you know in case of an emergency.

I have 1 friend and maybe another person to help me drive. 1 friend is willing to help me drive thankfully but he told me it's best if I use my moms car since it's the one I'm gonna be using the most

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If you're broke, then driving school is out. Do you have a friend or family member who would be willing to help you learn with their vehicle?

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Try practicing in low-stakes situation. Make an effort to make small talk with the cashier at the store. Maybe have a short chat with the person in line behind you if they seem open to it (use your introvert radar, we are usually pretty good at reading non verbal cues from someone that wants to be left alone). Make sure to pick neutral, inoffensive topics (Weather, yes. Politics, no) and aim for short interactions.

The idea here is to get in some practice in an environment where there is minimal chance for negative consequences. If the interaction ends up being awkward, its easy to stop. Worst case scenario a stranger thinks you're a bit weird and then goes about their day, never having to see you again.

It's been 10 years since we lost my sister and 3 since I lost my boyfriend. My mom still goes through episodes where she lapses into grief. On those days, I'm soft with her and let her talk, and I don't correct her if she calls me by my siblings name. I have PTSD from how I lost my boyfriend, and certain things will trigger it. I'll never ride a motorcycle again, can't even watch videos of accidents happening with riders involved, and have panic attacks when close calls happen to me while driving. My fiance is gentle with me on my bad days. He knows in theory how bad it was to go through, and supports me incredibly well.

When you have a loved one who has been hurt by loss, or if you are the one hurt by it, gentleness is the balm to grief.

Eat more slowly, Have balanced meals, Calorie counting, and just be mindful when you get groceries, as in be aware of the things you're likely to over eat with and maybe swap for healthier options. Not sure if you're doing this but exercise can also be a good idea, so even if you can't stop over eating at least you are burning some of those calories off. If youre anything like me and tend to binge at night, something that can help is eating larger meals in the morning and lunch time maybe some snacks as well so that youre not as hungry when its late. Ive heard its good to have high protein at breakfast.

I understand your view on your side note but how you worded your response does not indicate that. You’re stating that it’s “most likely” anxiety and not something else. Obviously, I could be anything but but stating most likely, you’re indicating it is that. That is horrible advice. It doesn’t matter if it happened to me or someone I care about. I care about people struggling with their health who are dismissed by shit doctors and people who believe nonsense rhetoric such as it’s anxiety.