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willpowerpt t1_je6pgk3 wrote

I swear parents only start pressuring their friends because they want them suffering right alongside them. If it was so amazing and fulfilling, they wouldn't be trying to talk their friends into it, they'd be with their kids unable to pull themselves away because, again, it's so amazing and fulfilling.

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keepthetips t1_je6p4ky wrote

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Beazore t1_je6on9l wrote

Same here. My fiance proposed last year and it only took me 6 months to have a breakdown and say I never want a wedding or to be married on paper. I (27F) don't see it as something that benefits me in any way that using a lawyer to gain some of the legal privileges can't also benefit me.

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mrnewtons t1_je6o8qh wrote

Depends on the area, I have a flawless record and I have a 2010 Ford Fusion. I still pay about $1,600 a year now because prices went up for both renters and auto insurance.

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But I live in Seattle, so if I get in an accident it's probably with a really expensive car... I also have more than the basic coverage for the same reason.

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Preposterous_punk t1_je6nyi2 wrote

If you keep kicking your friend’s cat, and laughing and continuing when they tell you to stop, and then they yell and call you an AH… That is not 100% them and 0% you.

If you ask a person out and they say no, so you start following them around insisting they give you a chance and yelling at them whenever they smile at someone else, until they tell you they don’t find you attractive and they’ll report you if you don’t leave them alone… That is not 100% them and 0% you.

If you’re constantly critical of people and insist on being “brutally honest” and ignore their feelings and they stop inviting you to parties and tell you they don’t want you around… That is not 100% them and 0% you

If a person finds that people get angry at them a lot, they need to examine their own behavior and figure out why. Going through life with an attitude of “everything I do is automatically fine and other people’s reactions to me are about them, not me” is going to lead to a difficult, lonely life.

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Centillionare t1_je6nahl wrote

I agree with the whole “I don’t like when family members try and pressure me into having kids” sentiment, but this is just going way too far.

The post implies they haven’t asked about kids in years, and are only bringing it up because a big milestone in their life has happened.

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Elegant_Spot_3486 t1_je6l6yw wrote

It depends on why they previously told me they didn’t want kids. If they said “it’s because I’m single”, then I will certainly re-ask one time if their relationship status changes.

If they said “I hate kids”, then I have no reason to ever bring it back up.

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