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Shadowkiller00 t1_jeb7bfh wrote

Emotionally let go of grudges, yes. Logically let go of grudges, it depends.

Do not let the grudge rule your life. It isn't with wasting your emotional energy on something trivial.

But grudges can be logical. Depending on the grudge, it could be good for you to hold onto it. If someone is toxic, it might be best to just stay away from them. Perhaps it makes sense not to lend a person money who has a habit of making poor choices with that money.

A grudge by the nature of the word implies emotion. But often the reason for the emotion has bearings in logic and safety. It was the emotion that finally allowed you to make the right choice. Letting go of the emotion doesn't mean you should go back on the choice.

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pmmeyourfavsongs t1_jeb730a wrote

You'd be surprised. I usually got "idk. Shorter." When I asked what they wanted. Sometimes I'd try asking how long it's been since their last cut to get an idea of how much has grown out but then I'd just get a shrug.

Usually the easy ones were the guys that came straight from outdoor work that have been getting the exact same cut since they were kids (or at least most of their adult lives)

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crackerjack2003 t1_jeb6pv2 wrote

Nah. There's nothing wrong with saying "0-3 on the sides, drop the fade at the back and 2 inches on the top". At least you're being clear with what you want.

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BGFalcon85 t1_jeb6klx wrote

Not directly, no. But an overdose that causes inflammation and diarrhea can, apparently. The vet basically said a buildup of "bad" bacteria overwhelmed the "good" bacteria (this is after weeks of blood and fecal tests). Six months of twice-daily Tylosin that we had to wean him off, and over a year of prescribed probiotics got him to a point where he can at least eat his sensitive food without issues.

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_perl_ t1_jeb5ec1 wrote

Our community does the free first visit and it's wonderful! I've had access to this program while adopting pets over the past 20 years and always appreciated it, but sort of took it for granted that other places don't have it. We are very lucky! Plus our regular vet accepts the free first visit so it's the beginning of a long term relationship.

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keepthetips t1_jeb59u8 wrote

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DavidAssBednar t1_jeb48yl wrote

If you’re making $20k/month, and your expenses are low I agree you are rich.

I’ve seen people who make $50k/month and are poorer than poor. They are flat broke because they spend spend spend.

I’ve also seen people who make $5k/month and have tons of money because they are frugal and smart with their money.

Sounds like you’ve got the best of both situations.

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