Recent comments in /f/LifeProTips

NoVaFlipFlops t1_jedh03p wrote

I myself was once a person who did not understand this. It did take hearing the explanations and linking those to my own experiences to get it. Growing up with narcissistic parents teaches you narcissistic behavior and maladaptive core beliefs, and so believe it or not, being a narcissistic 20something is traveling a difficult road -- it takes many villagers and bumpy lessons to navigate to better lands.

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benmajin11 t1_jedfpop wrote

I had a gf do this to me. She knew I never wanted kids. She waited until I just woke up and was still foggy, then she hit me with it. I took it well, said it's her body if that's what she wants to do, that's what we'd do. Obviously not thrilled about it. She admired me for taking it so well, then proceeded to go on "Well I think we should probably have another after, so they have a brother or sister." Again, I said yeah, that makes sense. She kept going until saying she wanted 5, at which point I figured something was fishy. She got me good. Then I got her back by putting a bar of lavender soap in her hot chocolate from dunkins, and it sat for hours in the fridge.

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TodaysOpinion t1_jedenql wrote

Maybe tell them separately. The older ones could be much more understanding and emotional and the youngest may be a little too nonchalant. I remember just repeating, yes, dead, never coming back. Dead dead. Yes, totally dead to my 3 year old about my grandma, then she went off to play while my 5 year old cried about it often for months.

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FullyRisenPhoenix t1_jedckl2 wrote

I hate that stupid day. Too many people make it about bullying and being mean. I’ve forbidden all “pranks” at my business after a guy played an awfully abhorrent prank on one of my employees. I mean……it was terrible!!

He was the only one laughing until I fired him.

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grudrookin t1_jeday3r wrote

The one I pulled last year was a sign on the printer saying it had an update and was now voice-activated.

I didn't think it would work until I heard someone say "print" a couple times...

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phwe9774 t1_jed9wsf wrote

Everyone that's saying this is bad advice because fuck corporations or minimum wage minimum effort isn't paying attention and reading what OP actually said. They're saying to make the best of a bad situation and learn what you can while you're there, not to try and leverage a raise from a shitty boss, but to leverage more money from your next job.

Most people have at least one shitty job in their life, usually more than one. If you have a shitty job and you aren't actively looking for another job or taking steps to learn more skills to get a better job, you only have yourself to blame. Before anyone says companies should be forced to pay a living wage, I want you to ask yourself one question: what do you think is going to change first, your job or corporate pay policies?

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