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Curtainmachine t1_j685ibf wrote

If you think prostitutes aren’t earning their money, you must have a warped idea of what it is to be a prostitute. Try it out for one hour with someone you think is gross and now you have to act like you like everything you’re doing to them and they’re doing to you and make it convincing or you could get hurt or worse. They’ll make you earn that money.

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mohomahamohoda t1_j680yjw wrote

I tend to be a very kind and sharing person. This has led to numerous people treating me like shit and many many people telling me I need to be less kind. For me these people reveal themselves to be the kind of people I don’t need to associate myself with.

Anybody who sees kindness as weakness is living for a future that is bleak to say the least. If the opposite of kindness is strength, I’m not interested in that set of values. These days I’m even less interested in having the conversation. I’d rather just keep being kind and let whoever has their mind fucked enough to not believe in kindness, be. Everybody wants to justify their assholish behavior as just fighting for their whatever. Wht if we just took responsibility of the asshole things we did and tried to be better rather than focus on giving ourselves an out. Lets just stop the bullshit.

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PotassiumPomegranate t1_j680lcu wrote

Companies like to hedge their bets on people not knowing those rights to execute them. They also like to throw out terms like “insubordination” or “failing job duties” to scare you.

But they cannot demand you do “unlawful” requests. And if someone is harassing you, belittling you, or otherwise treating you horrible. You have the right to shut down the interaction and refuse to help them further. You can suggest they find another person to help them or your manager can.

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PotassiumPomegranate t1_j6802xt wrote

Definitely do. Companies don’t like explaining your rights to you. Even if it’s not in the training materials, you can look up workplace laws where you live. They might be included there.

The better educated you are on things, the harder it makes for them to fire you for it too. Even though the us is at will, they can’t fire you for just any reason. Otherwise you can take them to court and easily win. If it’s something about them firing you because you didn’t put your life at risk, that’s not going to go well for them.

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PotassiumPomegranate t1_j67zeo4 wrote

Most places have this. They just don’t tell you. If you look through your training materials they will have in there that you have rights to deny service based on if you feel unsafe.

I have done so, managers have tried to say I can’t, I show them the training where it says so.

You don’t ever have to let people walk all over you in the name of customer service. Hold your ground and give yourself the respect you should.

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