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Oxygene13 t1_jeefxpk wrote

So I met my wife when we were both 30. We had never met before, that we remember, yet we both lived in the same small town, spent time with our parents when we were kids at the same places and parks, had the same friends right after school, went to the same pubs and clubs with those friends, and yet we never met. I scour the background of her family videos and photos, and her clubbing pictures, looking for myself in the background hanging out with the same people lol. Drives me nuts.

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or_worse t1_jeeet23 wrote

"Value" comes from reflection, and reflection takes time. A moment is much too brief for us to attribute value to it while simultaneously experiencing it in all its phenomenal richness/complexity. "Living in the present" means not letting that phenomenal richness/complexity slip away from our experience of Being in order to retroactively assign value (or lack thereof) to any one moment in time. Doing so causes us to lose the emergent moment (where the value of life is said, by some, to truly reside). That's at least one way to look at it, more or less.

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