Recent comments in /f/baltimore

TheCaptainDamnIt t1_iw55t7v wrote

Basic civility would be understanding that you are not special and entitled to public spaces because of sme you think you did makes you special over. everyone else.

And I help my neighbors dig their cars out AND don't expect anything in return. But you seem to think everyone and society owes you something when it snows.

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danhalka t1_iw55518 wrote

Don't try to make sense of it. People want to believe that the effort they expend digging a car out so they can drive it somewhere means they now own that patch of road 'round the clock. "I did a hard thing for myself so now fuck any neighbor or visitor who isn't me!" as local custom.

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S-Kunst t1_iw53pz1 wrote

No. When I moved to Baltimore, (1984) there were many venerable old restaurants which were very interesting and part of the city fabric. Sadly most of them have died, mostly as younger the generations did not want to continue the family business. In their place have been a new generation of restaurants, though all in a new national style and often not locally owned. Many have had great food, but could be located anywhere in the country. Not quite a chain concept, but with none of the local color or interest.

Of course the pandemic has been a killer of all levels of restaurants.

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dopkick t1_iw53ma2 wrote

I asked enough questions on our one and only date to be able to answer those questions!

It was somewhere in Africa and generally the workers hung out together a lot. They would make it a point to check out as much as possible. It was safer to do things in a big group as well. So it sounded exciting from that perspective.

Divorce rates are high because the +1 usually finds miscellaneous admin jobs, at best. The novelty of being somewhere exciting wears off quick when you find yourself being a secretary after formally working as a senior engineer. And that often breeds resentment. The employed spouse also gets to travel a fair bit (for work) which means the +1 gets to fly solo a fair bit but never fully fits in.

People who don't get married before heading over often get married while over there. Apparently having similar jobs makes things... easier. But they get divorced too because once the job comes to an end people can find out they don't actually have too much in common.

I will give her credit, she held up to my interrogation quite well. She also probably thought I was interested, so there is that.

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No-Lunch4249 t1_iw533cq wrote

You must be my neighbor who gladly accepted my offer to help shovel him out and then he walked off when his car was done. Just in time for me to realize my car had 2x as much snow on it as anyone else, motherfucker had just dumped his snow on/around my car.

All this to say there’s “making up rules” and there’s basic goddamn civility

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sxswnxnw t1_iw52oa5 wrote

Hey, I like cheesecake! I just don't want to go to some sad Cheesecake Factory in a dead mall.

Boston Street and that shopping plaza at that time are like hell's half acre. I cannot imagine fighting through all of that to eat some just ok food.

Selecting an Atlas Group restaurant demonstrates a lack of imagination. It's like buying someone roses when you could have found out if they even like flowers.

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