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ardhanarisvara t1_iw76ama wrote

Sighs, as someone this has also happened to (not in Baltimore but in a really nice neighborhood in Berkeley, California) the primary lesson I drew was to never assume a group of young boys is unthreatening. Clockwork Orange was a cautionary tale, as far as I'm concerned, and 2+ boys is enough to freak me out now. As soon as I see a group approaching, I cross the street and start scanning for the nearest place I can duck into should they follow. Whenever possible I don't carry valuables while walking, but, I do try to be sure to carry cash so I don't piss them off and get shot, raped, or otherwise injured out of boredom, anger, or malice. When I was robbed at gunpoint by 15 year olds I had nothing on me and they seemed insulted by that. Carrying a 20 in an empty pocket is now a kind of reflex - better to have something to hand over than my life, just in case.

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jondiced t1_iw750nr wrote

Reply to comment by friendly-fubar in Outdoor track? by [deleted]

I think so but I'm not sure. I know A Tribe Called Run uses the track at Poly but again I don't know the schedule there either. It's been a while since I've run down that way.

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laurenlcd t1_iw741hs wrote

>a group of children...
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>I was passing them

Rule 1: If you see a group of kids - especially boys - you don't stay on the same sidewalk with them. Jaywalk or go into a store and pretend to look for something to buy (or just go into an open building if you can). There is safety in witnesses.

These kids know they can commit crimes, be out all hours of the day and night, and they will receive no consequences - not by the justice system, not by their parent, not by anyone. You did the right thing by not putting up any resistance. Always assume that these kids - no matter their age - are armed. Did you not hear about the guy killed by the 14yo squeegee kid?

Rule 2: Unfortunately, you can't just take a leisurely night time stroll, even if you live in the county. If you were getting off work when this occurred, start taking a Lyft or Uber home. If you just wanted to get some exercise, invest in creating a home gym (stationary bike, treadmill, elliptical, whatever you can fit inside your space). I wouldn't walk at night unless I had a dog who needed to go potty and no backyard to do it in.

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DetainTheFranzia t1_iw73gu8 wrote

At nighttime, I don't trust anyone in this city. I'm always on alert when I walk by someone. Even during the day I don't let myself get too oblivious to my surroundings. I certainly don't smile at strangers. It's just the unfortunate necessity in a city like this. You did the right thing giving them your phone.

By the way, nobody has said this, but just take care of yourself this week. Traumatic experiences like that have a way of seeping deep into your body and even if you don't feel like you're in shock or are traumatized, you might have already internalized a lot of stress. Just go easy this week, don't put too much pressure on yourself to be your best self. Give yourself time to heal.

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