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beldaran1224 t1_j2fc0vu wrote

My partner uses our library almost exclusively. He has only used Audible once, and it's because the book was an exclusive and he was super excited about it. Other exclusives he's run into, he ultimately doesn't read, which is disheartening. I don't think we've ever come across one he wanted that the library didn't have that wasn't an Audible exclusive.

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throwaway-clonewars t1_j2fbqkz wrote

Honestly, I read this way- I HATE when I'm asked to take things apart for "deeper meaning" and plan to write very straightforward with no hidden meaning because of it. (As in whatever I put is just cause I think it'll be cool for the story and not some fancy meaningful thing to analyze- like red curtains are red because i like red)

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Dana07620 t1_j2fbpdo wrote

>Was this the ending Daniel Keyes wanted but thought would be too dark?

How would that be too dark? I'd consider that to be a happy ending.

Instead I've been so traumatized by the book that it's on my "Great, but read only once" list. And I'm not the only one.

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BinstonBirchill t1_j2faipv wrote

You pretty much said it. I read to gain knowledge primarily. Wasn’t into the structure of schools teaching the same things that I’m picking up now by choice. I enjoy working to understand things and see the shape of the world from ancient times through to our own. History provides context for our world and for literature through the ages.

Half of what I read (ideally) is history with a bit of science that goes over my head, philosophy, etc.

In my teens and twenties I primarily read mysteries, thrillers, then sci fi and fantasy and historical fiction. Heavier sci fi, fantasy, and historical novels sparked an interest in history and classics, and those led me to literature. I don’t think of my reading as an escape but everyone has their own life circumstances and I totally get why people wouldn’t be interested in the books I like reading the most.

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TurkeyDinner547 t1_j2fa4h7 wrote

I also enjoyed Lawrence In Arabia (not to be confused with Lawrence of Arabia although it's still about TE Lawrence) by Scott Anderson. It's like Seven Pillars with more background and footnotes. And yes, the whole thing read like an adventure epic and I was somewhat left feeling empty when it was over.

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Sttocs OP t1_j2f9ng4 wrote

Star Trek: TNG had an episode where Barkley gained super intelligence and started “helping” even when it wasn’t welcome, to the point where he became so powerful that he appeared to be a threat. Too bad the episode didn’t really play the scenario out and deus ex machina’d back to status quo by the end.

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Trick-Two497 t1_j2f95hx wrote

When you're reading these books, ask yourself this question: what part of this would be useful to apply to my specific circumstances? Not everything in those books are useful for everyone. It's up to you to figure out what's going to enhance your life and what's going to create more difficulties.

I'd also like to say that everyone has bad habits. That doesn't mean they are toxic people. Also, it's not your job to police their bad habits. If their habits involve behaviors are negatively affecting you, set a boundary instead of cutting them off. And remember, boundaries aren't about changing them, it's about keeping you safe. Safe, not comfortable.

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