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gatocurioso t1_j62fvg3 wrote

The apathy is a choice. It's supposed to make you uneasy, and then to question that uneasiness ('hey, nothing happened, this is boring"). This becomes apparent in later chapters. I think a lot of the book is about society's reaction to horrible violence, how the latter becomes background noise eventually

Ninja edit: also, the comparison to Márquez is reaching. It's shorthand for big south-of-the-USA fiction, I guess

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southern5footer t1_j62clla wrote

I've been in one for ~14 years. We have been in person except for a couple covid years when we met virtually. We have between 10-11 members always. 6ish have been around since the beginning. A few members have moved away, etc.

The way we run ours is that each member has an assigned month. You pick the book that will be discussed that month and we tell people 2 months in advance. If it is your month, you host at your house and serve dinner. (Although some host at other members houses if it is easier) Dinner can be super casual or themed or fancy.

We have a spreadsheet where we track books, each member's rating, etc. The way we pick books means we end up with very different types of books. This month we are reading a couple graphic novels, which is a first. Last month was a book on perimenopause. The books are quite varied.

The person whose month it is rates first and gives their review of the book and we go around the room and everyone rates 1-10.

Bringing notes to our book club would be totally normal and loved although there are many of us that don't do that either.

Hope that helps.

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Fun-Investigator676 t1_j62cbux wrote

I buy exclusively cheap used copies. If it's a book that becomes my favorite, i might invest in a nice hard copy, although this only happens with a few books

If I'm unsure of whether or not I'll like the book, i will find some online copies of it and read the first few chapters. But i tend to stick to classics so that's not much of a problem.

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Ziarh33 t1_j62cahg wrote

I prefer the 3rd option. Buying books from the op shop. I have a Salvos near me that always has a huge collection of books, from old to fairly new releases. Priced from $2 - $5. Anything I love I keep, everything else goes back to be resold. I also occasionally use the local library.

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Primary-Lion-6088 t1_j62b3pf wrote

I’m in two meetup.com ones, and they are both pretty similar in format. I don’t think having notes is weird at all, in fact I usually do. We all get to weigh in one by one at the beginning, then after that we chat more loosely about the book, sometimes with questions facilitated by the moderator of the club. At the end we vote on what to read next. One of my 2 clubs is always virtual and the other is sometimes virtual, sometimes in person. Although I theoretically like the idea of connecting in person, I find it much easier to actually make it to the all-virtual one. I think this is partly because it’s on Monday nights when I’m usually not doing much else, whereas the sometimes-in-person one is on Saturday afternoons — honestly, I’d rather be hanging out with my partner or friends on a Saturday afternoon than hauling myself all the way downtown to meet up with strangers, especially since it’s the only day my partner takes completely off each week.

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rocksmetalmoney t1_j627iha wrote

>There's no forensics in Victorian England.

Doesn't Sherlock mention at some point in one of the books being able to teat a stain on a jacket and tell if it's blood or a fruit stain? Also people have used sorts of forensics for thousands of years. Granted it being used with crime solving seems to be more recently in the past couple hundred years.. but it was definitely around in Victorian England. Also thank you for saying this cause it made me go down a rabbit hole looking it all up lol. It's fascinating

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mirrorspirit t1_j625fnt wrote

Sometimes it works the other way. The main character is the main character because they survived the killer.

Other times it's because the killer is too attached to the main character and gives a reason like they want the MC to suffer more or they need the MC to understand why they've been targeted. In some romantic suspense, the killer doesn't plan to kill the MC, just everyone around (usually) her so she has no one else, and they can have her to themselves. Then when she doesn't cooperate, then she has to die.

Sometimes it gets kind of convoluted. And sometimes, especially in true crime cases, it can be scary how the killer formed this fantasy in their head that revolves around them getting everything they want.

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driftwood14 t1_j624ji4 wrote

My cousins, wife and sister have one. We meet monthly. Sometimes none of us finish the book and we just hang out. Other times we have really good in depth discussions about the book. I like the informality of it. Plus we all make food and have a potluck too

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Previous_Injury_8664 t1_j624f0n wrote

The book club I’m currently in is with people who live in my neighborhood. We do spend at least half of the time talking about the book, depending on how remarkable it was. There’s also food and drink and bonding, because that’s a secondary goal of our meetings.

I would say anything goes. I’m a nerd and I’d love it if someone brought notes to our meeting, but unfortunately most of our books are not that deep. We choose 6 genres for the next six months and then vote for books within each genre. Verity this month made my eyes bleed, so I’m following up on my own with Les Miserables.

I would love to have a book club with fans of literature, but I’ll have to settle for online for now.

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senefen t1_j623hv3 wrote

Yep. Mine is run by CAE (the centre for adult education) in my city. They operate a number of groups and you just sign up for the one in your area. We meet once a month and take it in turns to host with wine and cheese. Once a year we put together a list of our desired books from their catalogue and CAE will send us something from our list every month.

It's pretty casual, but there's a range of personalities and tastes. In my club it would not be weird to have written down your thoughts. We generally don't, but it wouldn't be seen as weird.

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