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munkie15 t1_j6fa9kc wrote

I randomly found this book at a used book store and figured I would give it a whirl. I too thoroughly enjoyed the book. I was impressed with how much I was sucked into his story. I know I missed some details about things reading it as an American, but it was still great. I enjoyed it so much it made me check out “Slade House” as well. Also, just as good.

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Canadian_Targaryen t1_j6fa5sr wrote

I would recommend with dedicating only a small amount of time to reading at first. If growing disinterest is a problem than don’t try with a full chapter, but commit to reading a few pages a day. Overtime as you get deeper into the book it’ll feel like less of a chore as you decide to go an extra page, an extra two pages, before you know it you’re reading multiple chapters a day.

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Own_Comment t1_j6f9cd0 wrote

lol you get half a point more than me. Without looking it up, I don’t know what a Hoover book is either.

(Most recently read Remains of the Day, the creative act, some wheel of time, Fairy Tale, and started a Bertrand Russell book that’ll take me a month to read… It’s not like I don’t read but I feel like I have to defend myself at this point lol)

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InvisibleSpaceVamp t1_j6f8aip wrote

I don't know the book but I have seen the whole vicious circle of domestic violence and emotional codependency happen to a person I thought was way too smart to get sucked into this.

I still don't think I fully understand how this works on a psychological level, but if I bet the people who are making these judgements have no idea at all.

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chortlingabacus t1_j6f6v4f wrote

Thanks for this. My reaction wasn't loud hilarity but quiet chuckling that went unheard under my deep sighs. This smug ignorance paraded with a knowledgeable tone isn't at all surprising: When I've gently corrected Yanks online who refer to the Irish language as 'Gaelic' (a language used in a nearby country known for its very hot peppers) I've been 'corrected' by many of them using a more markedly knowledgeable tone.

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Grand_Run5279 t1_j6f5dls wrote

I’m looking for a book that has a found family trope and a lot of fluff. If the book has a mc that left a bad life, I want there to be no redemption/forgiveness arc between the mc and the people of the bad life. I don’t have much of a preference for anything else. Just a lot of found family and a bit of hurt/comfort.

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entropynchaos t1_j6f56lv wrote

That’s really interesting. I’m usually more irked if there are major world changes, because I usually think that despite those things, the world will pretty much chug along the same as it always did.

In general, though, I’m really good at suspending disbelief in all sorts of ways that annoy other people, and just taking those things at face value in order to enjoy the book for what it is.

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minimalist_coach t1_j6f4n00 wrote

I don't think you have to have a disorder or be destined to never enjoy reading. It takes practice to enjoy a quieter, slower, and less stimulating activity in a world that moves so fast and is filled with sensory distractions.

For people wanting to start reading, I recommend setting aside time on a schedule, shorter times to start, and reading something that really interests you. Save all the "great books" for when you are into a routine, and mix them in with other interesting books.

I think it's helpful to follow the advice that's given to people trying to start meditating. Set time aside regularly, start with short periods, take a few minutes to clear your mind, and keep a notebook nearby to jot down thoughts that you can't set aside.

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