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Apprehensive-Log8333 t1_jdjneok wrote

It's been several years since I read this book, when I first read it in my late teens it really helped me a lot by allowing me to understand that the bullying I got from my "friend" group was toxic and traumatizing and wrong. It was not until I read this book that I stopped having nightmares about my bully, who was aptly named Karen. I really identified with how the adults around the protagonist could not seem to grasp what was happening, and how it affected her life for so long. That scene where she's trapped in the gorge.....devastating. I love Margaret Atwood but her books are depressing. Try Anne Tyler, she's a lot more uplifting.

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katietatey t1_jdjn4ha wrote

What book? You can't keep us in suspense OP!!!

When I get an event or ending I can't deal with in a book or a movie I just rewrite it myself. "Nope, that's not what happened, this is what happened." It doesn't happen often, usually with an animal death or suffering.

Also getting mad at the author sometimes helps. I'm still mad at David Wroblewski for The Story of Edgar Sawtelle. And also to my friend who said "you love dogs, you will love this book," and gave me a copy.

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katietatey t1_jdjmgu0 wrote

I have read Joyce's other work and have been curious about Finnegan's Wake. I don't think I'm ready to read it yet but if I have a smaller TBR and more free time, then one day maybe I will. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. :)

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mooimafish33 t1_jdjm9rk wrote

Reply to comment by Lofty_quackers in Toxic book fans by sunforthemoon

I feel like a lot of people forget that kids know what's up, adults just find it uncomfortable so they act like they don't.

Myself and all my friends knew about the existence of sex, murder, rape, racism, suicide, all that by like 3rd grade. Obviously we didn't know the specifics, but we knew of it and made dumb kid jokes.

I read the Da Vinci Code in like 5th grade, and while it is not exactly high art, it does have mature content.

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wjbc t1_jdjlaol wrote

That’s still a tough assignment for an undergrad. When I studied Ulysses it was part of a double course in Irish literature and history. I needed to know Irish history to understand Joyce, and I also needed my background in the Western classics like Homer and Shakespeare. And even so, I’m sure I missed a lot.

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bigtimephonk t1_jdjj15w wrote

I thought a thread titled Toxic book fans must be about Sanderson fans. That Wired article is on-point and they absolutely can't handle it, or any other critique of his work. It's what idolizing a person does to you. He's great, but he's not perfect and neither is his writing. I think because they idolize him they cannot fully evaluate his work, resulting in a fragile, slavish appreciation. Which is why they meet any criticism with hostility.

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DadooDragoon t1_jdjgyfp wrote

It happens with just about anything if you care about interacting with strangers on the internet. Some places are worse than others (Reddit is not great, but not the worst). It's just a byproduct of the anonymity of the internet and, as you said, chronically online people.

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CrassDemon t1_jdjgib4 wrote

About my fourth attempt. The rhythm and prose just hit me right. I don't normally stick to a book if I don't like it, but something about Blood Meridian wouldn't let me give up. I loved "The Road" by the same author, I love westerns, I love bleak settings, but the writing style never clicked, until it did. Once I noticed the way paragraph structure was used and how sentences were supposed to flow, it brought the book to another level.

I have this discussion all the time on reddit about audiobooks vs reading. You get a different experience actually looking at the words on the paper than having them read to you, and blood meridian is the perfect example of this.

I tried Finnegan Wake, I don't think I'll ever pick it up again. It's just not for me, but I'm sure there are people out there that get it.

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