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TheOracleArt t1_jdm0w9g wrote

This is a book aimed written for and aimed at late teens and is supplementary sex education for gay kids because, funnily enough, the practice of safe gay sex is not taught in schools the way straight sex is. When I was at school (many moons ago) we learnt about straight, penis-in-vagina sex, the anatomy around this and what safe sex precautions to take. There was nothing covering this for gay sex. Now you may say "well, gay sex is a minority, so there's no point covering this." Well, if it's not covered in normal educational classes at school, it should be addressed elsewhere. Gay kids shouldn't be the ones just left to "figure it out" and possibly be taken advantage of or not be properly prepared the way sex education tries to prepare and warn straight kids.

This book was written to address that. So yes, it shows a diagram of the male body and erogenous zones and mentions that the prostate is an erogenous zone....cause it is? Are you equally shocked and appalled that in normal sex education, they note that a penis is also an erogenous zone too? In a book educating about gay sex...they're going to talk about the functions of gay sex. I'm not seeing how it can be anything else but homophobia that you're clutching pearls over the idea that a book might acknowledge that the prostate is a well-known erogenous zone. Would you equally freak out about a sex education book mentioning the clitoris?

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Adoniram1733 OP t1_jdm0mds wrote

This is fascinating. I firmly believe that dreams are something more than just "weird stuff our brain does while we're sleeping." I think dreams could well be connected with some form of reality. I also believe that just because we experience time linearly, does not mean that time is linear. Just because human consciousness seems to orient itself at a fixed point in time, does not mean that the moment we are living right now is the only moment that exists.

Thank you for sharing.

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lianepl50 t1_jdm09ij wrote

This is a YA book and, whilst the subject matter is quite sensitive, the author has handled it thoughtfully and appropriately for that age range. As a parent I do not censor books; as a teacher I obviously have to be a little more circumspect - this text is one that I have in my personal tutor library for a Y9 group. I'd say it is ok for a 13 year old - it is certainly handled a lot more sensitively than I've seen the topic handled online, where it is easily accessed.

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u2597 t1_jdlztc7 wrote

I tried to read it, but thought it was above my head. Did you ever notice that every quote you ever hear from that book, such as , iirc, "nattering nabobs of nepotism" or negativity or whatever it was, comes from the first three pages. Nobody (except op) gets past those first few pages.

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1945BestYear t1_jdlyelg wrote

I mean, the Allied Control Council that effectively ran Germany immediately after World War II banned and pulled out of circulation massive amounts of literature that was either explicitly or was more indirectly associated with Nazi ideology. I'm only semi-flippant when I characterise that less as traditional censorship and more as the rest of the human race telling Germany to touch grass and read another book.

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nihilfit t1_jdlxsq4 wrote

I think this is more complicated than most people seem to recognize here. In the first place, race is not a biological category. This means that referring to race, even in a fictional story, will be based on social conventions of thinking (falsely or mistakenly) that people belong to distinct racial groups on the basis of, presumably, skin color. And it's hard to see how such views could arise, at least not without a very complicated back story. There could, of course, be geographically-isolated populations of humans or human-like creatures, and in these populations certain characteristics might be more common than in other geographically-isolated populations. But if that's the case, then these populations will not, except very rarely, interact, so it's not likely that there will be diverse populations; it won't be usual or normal. Second, most fantasies are imagined in some geographically-limited, temperate zone climate that is a close-clone of medieval Europe, and in that environment, with that technological level involving limited trade and travel, again, diverse populations (at least of the skin-color type) aren't at all likely. It's not that you can't have such things without stretching credulity (which is a weird concept to appeal to in a fantasy context), it's just that there aren't any clear reasons why 'different races' make sense. The "Summer Isles" in George Martin's Song of Ice and Fire series do provide a rationale, but even in that case, there aren't people of different races all over Westeros and Essos. In fantasies that have a clear line of descent from Tolkien's stories, diverse races don't make sense at all (even supposing isolated developments in the 'east' of Middle Earth) because the time frames involved are only thousands of years, not millions. Again, it's not that such things cannot be introduced, but the matter is, as i said, complicated.

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