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homelessdreamer t1_jds5jq1 wrote

This right here is fascinating. I would not have called that. My speculation was similar to others in this thread that it was a combo of "pushing up daisies" and "dead men tell no tales." This is so much more wholesome and sweet. Most the time it feels like the world is significantly worse than I can imagine. So it is nice to be corrected and have it be more positive.

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StickOnReddit t1_jds2qta wrote

Yeah this sounds right to me too. They want an answer, not a gesture open to interpretation.

"Daisies never tell" feels like the sort of response you give when someone is splashing out on a friend, acting like they're a couple perhaps but never saying it and certainly not outwardly committing to it. I can open doors for you, take you out, buy you flowers (daisies), but if I don't say or act like we're dating, are we?

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Hanifsefu t1_jds1zd5 wrote

You're missing the important context of the "she love me/she loves me not" game. People pluck the petals off of daisies and whatever it ends on is how the person you're daydreaming about feels about you.

The first 3 lines are a direct reference to the classic custom. "Daisies never tell" is her response to that game and her desire for her love to take action rather than continue to daydream and wonder.

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outofmemory01 t1_jdrz3g7 wrote

What it 'means' I'm uncertain.
To me, it's her way of saying "I LOVE YOU".
I believe it's in reference to a song.
It's about a girl picking flowers dreaming of the one she loves.

https://www.answers.com/Q/Where_did_the_expression_daisies_don't_tell_come_from

Daisies Won't Tell

Anita Owen Document Type Score

Publication Date 1908

Comments MacIntosh Collection

New York : Jerome H. Remick & Co., c1908.

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Lyrics [Verse 1]
There’s a sweet old story
You have heard before
Here among the daisies
Let me tell it o’er;
Only say you love me,
For I love you well,
Answer with a kiss, dear,
Daises never tell.

[Refrain]
Daisies won’t tell, dear,
Come kiss me do,
Tell me you love me,
Say you’ll be true,
And I will promise
Always to be
Tender and faithful,
Sweetheart, to thee

[Verse 2]
In a dream I fancied
You were by my side.
While I gathered daisies
One long chain you tied,
‘Round us both I wound it,
Close I held you, too,
Daisies never tell, dear,
Make that dream come true.

[Chorus]

Owen, Anita, "Daisies Won't Tell" (1908). Historic Sheet Music Collection. 1349.
https://digitalcommons.conncoll.edu/sheetmusic/1349

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onajurni t1_jdrvus0 wrote

This is the only other explanation that would occur to me as well.

Also that a daisies won't tell if the game ended up on "loves me" or on "loves me not".

However, the phrase is a bit awkward for this explanation because OP has it "daisies won't tell", but the game is played with only one daisy. Although I suppose you could play the game with multiple daisies to see if the answer changed, or for multiple names, or multiple people playing the game, or something. I think the context of the conversation would be needed.

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