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Ilikereddit15 t1_j3cliod wrote
Company policy will prevail in this case, just like hobby lobby.
Pfordy40 t1_j3clinq wrote
Reply to comment by Omphaloskeptique in Moving to Greater Boston Area - Thoughts on Newton? by nomjs
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Pfordy40 t1_j3clfj1 wrote
I currently live in Newton. I can honestly never see myself leaving. It’s sprawling with 13 different “villages” each with their own charming downtown area. There are tons of great restaurants from any cuisine you can imagine and Boston is literally a 15 minute drive away. The public transportation is fantastic with the green line having 6 stops within the town. The community is thriving and always looks out for each other. The Newton population does not resemble the surrounding towns like Wellesley or Weston. Which is a good thing. As others have mentioned above, the school system is top tier and it’s probably one of the best towns to raise a family in the state, if that’s your plan.
I wouldn’t pay a lot of mind to the people dissing the town because of its wealthy population. Im not wealthy and I rent here. I’ve never once felt out of place. I’ve lived here for many years and people are very friendly. Lots of small businesses and hiking trails. I can’t say enough good things. I’ve lived in many towns across NH, RI, and MA this is my favorite.
cbandes t1_j3cjix7 wrote
Newton is a wonderful place to live. I grew up there, and I had a great education. The only problem you’ll find is that it’s a pretty expensive place to live, particularly when it comes to housing costs.
CraigInDaVille t1_j3cjgb5 wrote
Reply to comment by Quirky_Butterfly_946 in People who still regularly grocery shop at Stop and Shop, why? by [deleted]
No? Just explaining that I’d rather go through more effort and planning than continue giving S&S my money.
Past-Adhesiveness150 t1_j3cjfzp wrote
Make sure you bring your tesla
noodle-face t1_j3cj43v wrote
Reply to comment by SmellsofElderberry25 in Transgender worker denied health care files discrimination complaint by javi2591
Interesting and sad numbers. I'd argue working at a religious company may not be ideal here.
wkomorow t1_j3cissa wrote
Reply to comment by oneMadRssn in People who still regularly grocery shop at Stop and Shop, why? by [deleted]
Yes but I grew up in the 60s and the culture I grew up in is very different than today. I grew up in a tipping culture. People today are surprised to get tips, but I have always tipped delivery people, on Christmas the trash collectors, paper deliverer, postal carrier etc. Never very much, just a couple/few dollars as a sign of appreciation, annual tips a bit more. Tips should never replace a liveable wage, but what is wrong with giving people basically a free coffee or soda or snack on me.
Redz4u t1_j3ciqj7 wrote
Reply to comment by therapeutic-distance in Moving to Greater Boston Area - Thoughts on Newton? by nomjs
Also try Needham. West Roxbury would also meet your requirements
Kooky_Coyote7911 t1_j3ci8bv wrote
Newton ✓ Watertown✓ Weston✓ Wayland ✓ Lexington ✓ Arlington ✓ Wellesley ✓
YBMExile t1_j3chx6p wrote
It’s a small city with a bunch of villages, each with its own vibe. Traffic is low level unbearable. Be ready for affluenza, and be ready to raise your kids with that as the background noise, it’s unavoidable. Every positive that comes with being in a very well of town has stressors to go along with it.
moisheah t1_j3chw0j wrote
Reply to comment by chengbinzhang2010 in New home owner, National Grid Bill is extreme! by Fuey500
I really appreciate this info, thank you so much !
chengbinzhang2010 t1_j3ch5ho wrote
Reply to comment by moisheah in New home owner, National Grid Bill is extreme! by Fuey500
Well if you use electricity for heating... then you should update that with the NatGrid.
Omphaloskeptique t1_j3ch20e wrote
Best bagels in MA at Rosenfeld’s. You will appreciate moving there, especially if you have children.
chengbinzhang2010 t1_j3cgdeg wrote
Wife and I recently moved to Newton from JP (we've also lived all over the state including Quincy, Malden, Allston, Brighton, etc.). So we have a pretty good sample size over 15 years.
- Everyone here will complain about Newton being pricy and it is. But there's a wide spectrum of neighborhoods within Newton. Waban is the most affluent part and you have areas like Nonantum that are relatively less expensive. The beauty is you have access to the public schools which are quite good. A decent condo ~500-600k. For an existing single family home ~$800-1mil+. New constructions can run $2+ million dollars. I would try to avoid any home too close to the I90 or Route 9. It's very loud and has bad resale value.
- We chose Newton because it balances convenience vs public school. There's a green line running through Newton which means you can actually take the T into the city (Longwood) if you want. That's a huge plus because many other suburbs with decent schools don't have access to the T. Brookline being an exception but they're even more expensive :).
- Newton isn't as diverse as Boston. It's predominantly Caucasians and Asians. HOWEVER, it is still MORE diverse than most other suburbs (ex. Weston, Wellesley, Dover, etc.).
- Infrastructure is old so there's always new utilities being updated. The residents generally care about their communities and it's relatively safe. Expect to find a lot of families and kids.
- Annoying thing about living here is people try to price gouge you for any home repair jobs. And neighborhood groceries lack diversity and has a "newton" markup. We do all of our shoppings outside of Newton because it's cheaper and better selections.
In any case - a lot to share so happy to chat more if you DM me.
g_rich t1_j3cg7rn wrote
If you can afford it then Newton is great, close to the city (especially Longwood) and easy access to pretty much all the major expressways. For your kids Newton has some of the best schools in the state which is saying a lot because Massachusetts has some of the best public education in the country.
SmellsofElderberry25 t1_j3cg1of wrote
Reply to comment by noodle-face in Transgender worker denied health care files discrimination complaint by javi2591
I appreciate your openness to learning more.
Data indicate that 82% of transgender individuals have considered killing themselves and 40% have attempted suicide, with suicidality highest among transgender youth. (Source: NIH)
Gender dysphoria is a severe problem in the trans community and access to gender affirming care (which is supported by the major medical groups like the AMA) is the best way to treat it. This may include taking or blocking hormones, minor, or major procedures. As with any medical treatment, you work with a doctor and generally start with the least invasive/severe solution and continue treatment until you find some combination of things that works.
moisheah t1_j3cfrxm wrote
Reply to comment by chengbinzhang2010 in New home owner, National Grid Bill is extreme! by Fuey500
Thank you - I just looked and ours (Nat Grid) says Residential Regular R-1
megsperspective t1_j3cfkty wrote
I do most of my shopping at Market Basket, BJ’s and Whole Foods and am honestly shocked at the high prices at Stop & Shop. I avoid it whenever possible. Whole Foods can be expensive but at least you know what you’re getting into with them. I feel like Stop & Shop should be on par with the other large chains and instead it’s just crazy town.
therapeutic-distance t1_j3cfb2u wrote
How about Needham?
oneMadRssn t1_j3cf2n0 wrote
Reply to comment by wkomorow in People who still regularly grocery shop at Stop and Shop, why? by [deleted]
Are you serious with the tipping? The fact they don’t allow tipping is a HUGE plus for me.
In short, tipping culture is highly correlated to corrupt societies. The more tipping there is in a society, the more corrupt that society is in general.
moisheah t1_j3ceyuy wrote
noodle-face t1_j3cewz1 wrote
Reply to comment by SmellsofElderberry25 in Transgender worker denied health care files discrimination complaint by javi2591
Not personally but I've worked with several who are acquaintances. To be honest I don't know how it'd be lifesaving but accept I could be wrong.
SmellsofElderberry25 t1_j3cesgy wrote
Reply to comment by noodle-face in Transgender worker denied health care files discrimination complaint by javi2591
I'm not trying to be flip, but do you know anyone who is trans? This is life saving surgery.
mortalcoildrop t1_j3cllxn wrote
Reply to People who still regularly grocery shop at Stop and Shop, why? by [deleted]
Closest Market Basket to me is over half hour away. Closest Stop and Shop is less than 10 minutes.
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