Recent comments in /f/massachusetts

Pfordy40 t1_j3clfj1 wrote

I currently live in Newton. I can honestly never see myself leaving. It’s sprawling with 13 different “villages” each with their own charming downtown area. There are tons of great restaurants from any cuisine you can imagine and Boston is literally a 15 minute drive away. The public transportation is fantastic with the green line having 6 stops within the town. The community is thriving and always looks out for each other. The Newton population does not resemble the surrounding towns like Wellesley or Weston. Which is a good thing. As others have mentioned above, the school system is top tier and it’s probably one of the best towns to raise a family in the state, if that’s your plan.

I wouldn’t pay a lot of mind to the people dissing the town because of its wealthy population. Im not wealthy and I rent here. I’ve never once felt out of place. I’ve lived here for many years and people are very friendly. Lots of small businesses and hiking trails. I can’t say enough good things. I’ve lived in many towns across NH, RI, and MA this is my favorite.

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wkomorow t1_j3cissa wrote

Yes but I grew up in the 60s and the culture I grew up in is very different than today. I grew up in a tipping culture. People today are surprised to get tips, but I have always tipped delivery people, on Christmas the trash collectors, paper deliverer, postal carrier etc. Never very much, just a couple/few dollars as a sign of appreciation, annual tips a bit more. Tips should never replace a liveable wage, but what is wrong with giving people basically a free coffee or soda or snack on me.

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YBMExile t1_j3chx6p wrote

It’s a small city with a bunch of villages, each with its own vibe. Traffic is low level unbearable. Be ready for affluenza, and be ready to raise your kids with that as the background noise, it’s unavoidable. Every positive that comes with being in a very well of town has stressors to go along with it.

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chengbinzhang2010 t1_j3cgdeg wrote

Wife and I recently moved to Newton from JP (we've also lived all over the state including Quincy, Malden, Allston, Brighton, etc.). So we have a pretty good sample size over 15 years.

- Everyone here will complain about Newton being pricy and it is. But there's a wide spectrum of neighborhoods within Newton. Waban is the most affluent part and you have areas like Nonantum that are relatively less expensive. The beauty is you have access to the public schools which are quite good. A decent condo ~500-600k. For an existing single family home ~$800-1mil+. New constructions can run $2+ million dollars. I would try to avoid any home too close to the I90 or Route 9. It's very loud and has bad resale value.

- We chose Newton because it balances convenience vs public school. There's a green line running through Newton which means you can actually take the T into the city (Longwood) if you want. That's a huge plus because many other suburbs with decent schools don't have access to the T. Brookline being an exception but they're even more expensive :).

- Newton isn't as diverse as Boston. It's predominantly Caucasians and Asians. HOWEVER, it is still MORE diverse than most other suburbs (ex. Weston, Wellesley, Dover, etc.).

- Infrastructure is old so there's always new utilities being updated. The residents generally care about their communities and it's relatively safe. Expect to find a lot of families and kids.

- Annoying thing about living here is people try to price gouge you for any home repair jobs. And neighborhood groceries lack diversity and has a "newton" markup. We do all of our shoppings outside of Newton because it's cheaper and better selections.

In any case - a lot to share so happy to chat more if you DM me.

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g_rich t1_j3cg7rn wrote

If you can afford it then Newton is great, close to the city (especially Longwood) and easy access to pretty much all the major expressways. For your kids Newton has some of the best schools in the state which is saying a lot because Massachusetts has some of the best public education in the country.

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SmellsofElderberry25 t1_j3cg1of wrote

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megsperspective t1_j3cfkty wrote

I do most of my shopping at Market Basket, BJ’s and Whole Foods and am honestly shocked at the high prices at Stop & Shop. I avoid it whenever possible. Whole Foods can be expensive but at least you know what you’re getting into with them. I feel like Stop & Shop should be on par with the other large chains and instead it’s just crazy town.

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