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bobgoblin888 t1_j3e0i4r wrote

I went to college in Newton, and would often walk to Newton Center. Lots of shops and restaurants, very village-y feel but quite accessible to Boston on the D line, or via the Mass Pike or Route 9. Great place to raise a family. I’d love to move back there, but I’m a public school counselor, so that’s a no go for reasons already beaten to death on this thread lol.

I’m on the North Shore now, which has its own charms, plus the beach, but it’s not Newton.

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ordinarycitizen41 t1_j3dz2le wrote

I am from Newton. As far as the Massachusetts area goes, it is about the nicest place to live except for Beacon Hill or Back Bay. Newton is a pretty, safe area which is outside of the city but close enough so that you can commute to Boston for work, school, the theater, etc. Moreover, Newton itself has plenty of shops, restaurants, and theaters which will give you fun things to do after hours despite it being in the suburbs.

That said, I do not come from a well-off background so from my own experience the degree of affluence in Newton may be alienating when initially moving there. It is expensive as well. However, if you can afford it and are looking for a nice place near Boston to raise children, it is a fine place to live.

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WinsingtonIII t1_j3dyx3s wrote

The D branch is easily the best of the Green Line branches though as it is a dedicated track and doesn't have to stop at traffic lights or due to traffic. It is also the easiest branch to access Longwood from, it's only a 20-25 minute ride on the D branch from Newton Centre to the Longwood stop.

I agree commuting around the Boston area is generally not the best, but that particular commute is honestly quite easy. But I can see what you mean that if they can afford Newton Centre why not just go to Brookline anyways and be even closer. It depends what OP wants though, Newton is a little more suburban than Brookline is overall, though how dense each is really depends on where you are in each town.

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Open_Concentrate962 t1_j3dy43n wrote

Newton is better described as a collection of a half dozen villages each with a different vibe and co$t. It is polynuclear in a way that many other suburbs are not. Amenities in one are not found in another. Transit and walkability is also highly varied. Used to live there as a renter but could not afford to purchase there.

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watravis2 t1_j3dwf3d wrote

Seems to me like it’s another layer of the entitlement complex in this country. I wanna be something else and you need to enable it to happen. What if i wanna be 6’9 and black? Is this a clinical condition if i get depressed because I’m 6’1 and white? I think you would just say I’m mentally ill. Getting hormone replacement or reassignment surgery changes neither your sex or your gender. We exist behind our eyes so identify as whatever you wish, but physically altering your body is just superficial window dressing that belongs in the same category as face lifts and breast augmentation. IMO

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Newgidoz t1_j3du59s wrote

"Gender" is a bit of an umbrella term

Things like gender roles/norms/expectations are social constructs

Gender identity is to the best of our knowledge an innate aspect of someone's neurology

When one's gender identity and sex don't align, that can cause clinically significant distress in the form of gender dysphoria that's treated by aligning them as much as possible/necessary

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