Recent comments in /f/massachusetts

fendent t1_j6bljkv wrote

Yeah at the time I was high anxiety but not too bad. Looked over my shoulder a bit more but nothing too bad then one day I just couldn’t stop thinking about it or about bad things happening. But yeah, I think I finally have reached some peace about it after a good bit of work. Wishing you the best as well.

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SpecterCody t1_j6bl7so wrote

Reply to comment by fendent in Holyoke mall shooting by runninginsquare_s

Thank you for the concern. In the moment I wasn't too scared, just alarmed. Once I read the news in a restaurant confirming it was indeed a shooting, it started to sink in. Its a mix of emotions that's hard to process right now. I hope you were able to find some peace with the scary incident you went through.

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fendent t1_j6bjplv wrote

Apologies if this is too presumptive of me but please be sure you get some professional help processing this. I’ve never quite got over being shot at and I hate seeing anybody thinking they are fine like I thought then one day a year later just hitting a brick wall of walking catatonia. I was a complete space case, dissociating constantly and probably avoidable if I got somebody to help pick through it with me. Be well, friend.

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RedPandaActual t1_j6bivyv wrote

I am, Holyoke has had a serious decline since covid, it’s not the same place it was before then. Gang activity has been on the rise as the economy tanked more and more. Glad I was finally able to move out but sad at what it’s becoming.

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kdall7 t1_j6bhxam wrote

The victim was an innocent bystander (it’s being reported that it was a manager, I believe his name is Walo but not trying to spread misinfo so please don’t take this as fact, who was trying to break up a fight between two people) at the nail salon called “A Touch of Beauty.” The downstairs location on the first floor near JCPenny. The upstairs location is my regular nail salon. My family was there in the food court when the shooting happened. They said it was chaos and everyone grabbed their kids and left to the closest exits.

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SpecterCody t1_j6bg1u1 wrote

Yep. Today I was bored and said "fuck it I'll go to the mall to walk around and get out". I had this intrusive though that there could be a shooting because they are so common now. Lo and behold it happens when we are there. I was not even surprised, just shaken after the fact finding out it was indeed a shooting.

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