Recent comments in /f/massachusetts
OnlyPaperListens t1_j6jdtna wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
Can't have dairy, but wouldn't mind otherwise.
BlaineTog t1_j6jdh66 wrote
Reply to comment by AnyRound5042 in Tenants living in a building that should be condemned, without heat or hot water. Who is the landlord? Good god. by Much_Perception4478
Yeah, I feel like, "no heat or hot water in the middle of a New England winter," is the point at which you stop sending rent checks. What would you even be paying for? If a judge eventually evicts you, do you thank them?
Pudge223 t1_j6jdecs wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
crank 3 and then complain to my wife on the way home.
-Budungundugun OP t1_j6jdbh6 wrote
Reply to comment by PLS-Surveyor-US in Birthday dinner ocean front recommendations by -Budungundugun
Lots of options in Plymouth definitely based on a Google search . I’m not familiar with the restaurants there. Any particular you’d recommend?
stephyska t1_j6jd1az wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
These are too sugary to drink in mass quantity and I like my coffee in mass quantity.
Positive-Material t1_j6jcwop wrote
Reply to comment by Simon_Jester88 in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
The story would not be nearly as sympathetic and would vilify the black woman and celebrate her life sentence like this: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3164921/Detroit-mother-killed-2-kids-no-parole-sentence.html
Grinchtastic10 t1_j6jcfdd wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
If i’m really desperate, Shitting most likely
drjoker83 t1_j6jc746 wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
Say thanks and grab a mocha and ask if I owed who got them anything.
birdprom t1_j6jbx4l wrote
Reply to comment by cmh413 in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
Your comment makes me so tired...I wish I had your energy. So mainly I'm not going to respond. But I just wanted to pull out what I feel is the most important bit, which is:
>3) humans naturally flock to their tribe (financially/social class, race, religion).
You're a bigot, and not worth my or anyone else's time. Have a nice day.
iTZBLaSToFFTiMe t1_j6jbvi9 wrote
Reply to comment by J_Worldpeace in "It's too warm...I want a snow storm" by [deleted]
LoL
[deleted] t1_j6jbly2 wrote
Reply to comment by swoldier_force in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
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J_Worldpeace t1_j6jbjv4 wrote
Reply to comment by iTZBLaSToFFTiMe in "It's too warm...I want a snow storm" by [deleted]
Exactly. I love living here...
cmh413 t1_j6jbjpx wrote
Reply to comment by New_Analyst3510 in Justice for Tyre Nichols Worcester, Massachusetts at Kelly Square at 4:00 PM Tomorrow. please share by New_Analyst3510
A 4pm protest on a Monday is simply terrible organization.
iTZBLaSToFFTiMe t1_j6jbg21 wrote
Reply to "It's too warm...I want a snow storm" by [deleted]
If I venture a guess, there's a warm weather crowd and a cold weather crows made up of millions of people and you hear complaints from each perspective pending the weather, which brings out the complainers of the people complaining about the weather, which in turn will bring out the complainers in the comments of posts complaining about the different groups of people complaining about the weather.
Cerberus73 t1_j6jbbcd wrote
It's not that easy to flip the switch from love and devotion to raging hate all at once. This guy is going to be processing this for a long time.
And, of course, forgiving someone is very different from understanding them or wanting anything to do with them ever again.
ForwardBound t1_j6jb9vu wrote
Reply to Natick apparently by roadtrip-ne
I know this is an unpopular opinion but I really wish the marathon route didn't go through this part of the town. Bad for runners and bad for nature.
what_comes_after_q t1_j6jb5ij wrote
Reply to comment by swoldier_force in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
I am married and still not an expert, but I do know this guy needs professional help. Having your partner do some so unimaginably horrible creates a conflicting image of someone who you love dearly, and your brain can’t rationalize these two incomparable facts. He wants to forgive because he still sees her as who she was before this tragedy - probably the most important cornerstone of his life that he would do anything for. Reconciling how someone you know like that can do something so out of character is going to take lots of therapy to work through and unpack.
BNL52577 t1_j6jb0gz wrote
Reply to comment by swoldier_force in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
There is so much about mental health we are still learning about. There is so much complexity to relationships that it's difficult to easily and definitively declare anything.
I don't know know these people and don't want to dig. But I know what I have been through, what I have seen in the lives of those I love. When challenges are long-standing, there is the possibility of both hating the challenge & hating the disease, and loving the person and loving the existence you have.
Again, my focus is not on these people specifically. I just hope that each of us can lighten the load of others when we have the capacity. And I hope that we have our own loads lightened when they become unbearable.
Take care of yourselves.
SermonOnTheRecount OP t1_j6jahkz wrote
Reply to comment by Budget-Bake6277 in Involuntary commitment registry by SermonOnTheRecount
Thanks
cmh413 t1_j6jaapy wrote
Reply to comment by birdprom in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
That’s literally free money given by random donators that subsequently, nobody is entitled to. Who gives a shit about a hypothetical disparity? Are you gonna campaign for white people to donate money to black go fund mes? This isn’t a shot at you, just a shot at the idea that a fundraiser for a private (almost dead) person holds any kind of racist context.
Yes, you could make that point. And I would imagine you are right. But 1), it’s not worth talking about, 2) we can’t do anything about it 3) humans naturally flock to their tribe (financially/social class, race, religion). I don’t wanna circle jerk about how a black family wouldn’t receive the same funding, because it has jack shit to do with what really happened.
You’re literally shooting down the kindness of random strangers trying to make sure the husband is taken care of, and the deceased receive a proper burial. We’re thinking about dad here, and potentially rehabilitating the mother, however long that takes. It’s honestly gross to turn this into a race thing.
Oh, no! I’m a racist for my opinions! The people messaging me definitely aren’t a bunch of white internet prowlers who interact with people of color with white gloves.
birdprom t1_j6j9qof wrote
Reply to comment by cmh413 in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
It would be equally as sad, yes. But would the GoFundMe be up to 900k? I'm guessing that was the point of the question.
ObsidianComet t1_j6j9mlp wrote
Reply to comment by Lovemesomediscgolf in Natick apparently by roadtrip-ne
The Last of Us
DumbshitOnTheRight t1_j6j99we wrote
Reply to comment by SermonOnTheRecount in Involuntary commitment registry by SermonOnTheRecount
See this.
hamsamith t1_j6j91uq wrote
Reply to Very good boi relaxing in Rockport by BeardiesRule112
Shoebert?!?!
MBOSY t1_j6jdtom wrote
Reply to "It's too warm...I want a snow storm" by [deleted]
No matter what the weather is like, its because of climate change and we are all going to die and its Charlie Baker’s fault.