Recent comments in /f/massachusetts
noble_29 t1_j6n7cbn wrote
Reply to comment by Gravity_Beetle in Husband Of MA Mom Accused Of Killing 3 Children Asks She Is Forgiven by cailinloesch
Too many people don’t understand what an altered mental state is. Even less understand what psychosis is and what it entails. Too many people are acting like the person who committed this atrocity is the same person who loved and cared for these kids every day. It may have been the same person physically but it certainly was not the same person mentally and her husband even acknowledges this. Everything about this situation is devastating to all parties involved but demonizing the mother for something that she had no control over helps nobody.
It’s clear to tell when someone doesn’t understand mental health issues when they say “well why doesn’t mass shooter X get sympathy for mental illness?” Not every mental health disorder is created equal and the vast majority of them do not cause complete breaks from reality. Lumping a diagnosis like psychosis with something like sociopathy or bipolar is completely unfair, but some can’t understand that “black and white” does not exist with issues like this. Good vs evil is not the argument here no matter how many people try to say it is.
LordeLordeYaYaYa OP t1_j6n74oq wrote
Reply to comment by BlaineTog in Ideas for adventures or activities to spend girlfriend's birthday in Boston? by LordeLordeYaYaYa
“you picked a bad time of year for outdoor activities” I didn’t choose when my girlfriend’s birthday would be 🤣 But i appreciate your recommendations very much — thanks!!
therapeutic-distance t1_j6n6odv wrote
Reply to This is a long shot but…is anyone missing a dog? He was found in a Hooksett NH and nobody has claimed him. by rmarkham
Doesn't he have a microchip? That might be a labradoodle.
Outrageous_Map3458 t1_j6n6mtt wrote
Reply to Anyone have success holding a local police officer accountable for abuse of power in MA? by FormalOpportunity668
You don’t unless you want her to take you back to court.
Frenchdu t1_j6n69ae wrote
Reply to Natick apparently by roadtrip-ne
Thought those were the Arlington heights nvm
[deleted] t1_j6n5zlt wrote
Reply to comment by t_11 in Park St. by No_Rope6843
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BlaineTog t1_j6n5oam wrote
Reply to Ideas for adventures or activities to spend girlfriend's birthday in Boston? by LordeLordeYaYaYa
You picked a bad time of year for outdoor activities. We're in the dead of winter, which means anything outdoors is probably shut down for now. You can go hiking in any of a number of spots, but those might be kinda rough when it's so cold out.
That said, there's still a lot of fun stuff to do in Mass. There's the Minute Man National Historical Park (a series of small museums covering the opening battles of the Revolutionary War) and Boston's Freedom Trail if you like to walk. For more indoor activities, there's the New England Aquarium, the Boston Tea Party Museum, the USS Constitution, Bunker Hill Monument (it's not outdoors but climbing to the top is a bit of a workout!), Hammond Castle, the Eustis Estate, the Witch House at Salem (call them up for times, as they're open less often during the winter), the Salem Witch Museum, the Isabella Stewart Gardener Museum, the Museum of Fine Arts, the Museum of Science (lots of museums in Massachusetts!), and the JFK Presidential Library, among other options.
DumbshitOnTheRight t1_j6n54v1 wrote
Reply to Should there be a ballot initiative about repealing Section 9A(a) of a law banning public employees from striking? by 96suluman
I'd like to see a provision in the end of a contract period, if a new deal isn't reached, no work will be performed until a new contract is approved.
It puts the burden equally - on the towns and state to get a new contract in place, and on the union to get it done unless they like their membership not collecting a paycheck.
adamdreaming t1_j6n52fa wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Natick apparently by roadtrip-ne
Ron's got nothing against that.
Ron hates bikes because they are (said with teeth gritting hatred) European
[deleted] t1_j6n4r7x wrote
Reply to comment by adamdreaming in Natick apparently by roadtrip-ne
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tapakip t1_j6n4jlm wrote
Reply to comment by jp_jellyroll in Dozens of cities and towns are facing their first big deadline to comply with a new state law that requires them to legalize more homes near MBTA stations. In Weston, a notoriously exclusive suburb, town officials met this morning to discuss how they might comply with the new rules: by streetsblogmass
Funny how Boston is never included in that list of rough cities, even though the crime and schools are comparable.
the_vine_queen t1_j6n4jil wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
thank them and drink it
johnmh71 t1_j6n4ejh wrote
Reply to comment by New_Analyst3510 in Justice for Tyre Nichols Worcester, Massachusetts at Kelly Square at 4:00 PM Tomorrow. please share by New_Analyst3510
Stay there and put out a BLM sign. That way you don't have to go anywhere and you can still be one of the good white people.
And the good people of Worcester, which isn't Memphis, don't have to have their evening commute interrupted.
BlaineTog t1_j6n436w wrote
Reply to Should there be a ballot initiative about repealing Section 9A(a) of a law banning public employees from striking? by 96suluman
If the state is telling you that you can't strike, then you definitely need the ability to strike. Like, I get the idea that there are some sectors too important for disruption, but the solution to that is to make those jobs good enough that nobody working them feels the need to strike. A ban on striking just gives the state an absurd amount of leverage, meaning those workers eat a ton of pain and then eventually quit. I would rather have veteran public servants working happily to keep the Commonwealth moving smoothly than see heavy employee churn kick out everyone with an ounce of experience while the newbies hired in have all the optimism and joy ground out of them.
The-Shattering-Light t1_j6n40dj wrote
Reply to comment by thelasagna in A mystery body washed up on a Marblehead beach Thursday has been identified as 31-year-old Michael Gray | “The truth of what happened was such an innocent but reckless mistake. … He started cold plunging sometime ago and often did it to clear his mind and help him work out his stress." by rabblebowser
And in the case of that it should be something done safely, not alone at night in freezing temps
The-Shattering-Light t1_j6n3rnr wrote
Tattoos are not something that you should trust to walk-ins.
There’s a reason why you can’t just get one done next week from any tattoo parlour. The artists who do it well are highly skilled, and the services surrounding it to do them safely are pretty strict.
Small or not, it still takes time and skill to do well. You could go for cheap same-day, and you could easily end up with a blown out tattoo and an exciting new infection.
New_Analyst3510 OP t1_j6n3mg1 wrote
Reply to comment by johnmh71 in Justice for Tyre Nichols Worcester, Massachusetts at Kelly Square at 4:00 PM Tomorrow. please share by New_Analyst3510
It's not about virtue, I'm not some justice warrior I'm a redneck from up in the woods but this brought me out the woods
jelder t1_j6n3ij0 wrote
Reply to Should there be a ballot initiative about repealing Section 9A(a) of a law banning public employees from striking? by 96suluman
Should public employees be able to strike? Yes.
New_Analyst3510 OP t1_j6n3can wrote
Reply to comment by A_Man_Who_Writes in Pack Kelly Square for Tyre Nichols Worcester, Massachusetts every Monday at 5:00 PM please share by New_Analyst3510
Yesterday 6
New_Analyst3510 OP t1_j6n3atc wrote
Reply to comment by Unable-Bison-272 in Pack Kelly Square for Tyre Nichols Worcester, Massachusetts every Monday at 5:00 PM please share by New_Analyst3510
Performative for what? If it performative I sure as hell wouldn't be out here in the cold I would wait till June to do something but it's not performative I live in the region and all upset about it so I'm doing the protest about it until everyone who was there gets charged because not everyone who was there has been charged yet and I'm not stopping till at least the main five have a conviction
ghostsintherafters t1_j6n3617 wrote
Reply to comment by Vaiiki in If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
B-b-b-but I thought only teenagers worked those jobs which is why we're allowed to underpay them
Northbound77 t1_j6n1sho wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
Saying no thanks, Dunkin coffee is terrible
Potat-O-Vision t1_j6n1ojr wrote
Reply to Should there be a ballot initiative about repealing Section 9A(a) of a law banning public employees from striking? by 96suluman
Sure, put it on the ballot. Choice is good.
DistributionNo1471 t1_j6n1cdv wrote
Reply to If someone said they were bringing coffee from Dunkin, and they show up with this; what are you doing? by jpige93
I love the kids original. I’d be happy!
jp_jellyroll t1_j6n7hw1 wrote
Reply to comment by tapakip in Dozens of cities and towns are facing their first big deadline to comply with a new state law that requires them to legalize more homes near MBTA stations. In Weston, a notoriously exclusive suburb, town officials met this morning to discuss how they might comply with the new rules: by streetsblogmass
Boston always gets a pass for being the economic & cultural hub for all of New England. Their crime & school rankings may not be #1 but the city makes up for it with literally everything else -- highly-regarded companies, great restaurants & bars, lots of entertainment, multiple pro sports teams, world-class museums, world-class universities, public transpo, etc.
Fall River? Worcester? Not so much.