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BelichicksBurner t1_j479tpz wrote
Reply to comment by Historical_Pie_5193 in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Nope
Historical_Pie_5193 t1_j479kwz wrote
Reply to comment by BelichicksBurner in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Have you ever thought about asking one?
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Reply to comment by 1carus_x in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
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1carus_x OP t1_j47718h wrote
Reply to comment by phantom3535 in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Both great statements. The use of biological sex is often assumed that there's only a few exceptions, but someone else did the math and we're looking at at max around 20k people whom this bill puts them in a grey area, we're as common as redheads
603freedom t1_j475ahd wrote
Reply to Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
Pease GC or Sagamore GC (North Hampton) will most likely be open in April. Breakfast Hill GC is another close option but they tend to open later. Tour has 4-5 simulators with a full restaurant/bar. I believe you can only book 5 days in advance there. Simulators tend to get booked up fairly fast around here.
phantom3535 t1_j473m8j wrote
I don't see much of the argument against letting people change the sex on their birth certificate without surgery. If they can already change it with SS, and on their Driver's License and everywhere else then why does it matter? Seems like an arbitrary requirement to have to begin with.
And for HB396, never assume that common sense or reason is guaranteed. IMO most people naturally assume "biological sex" is split into two categories or male/female with rare exception. But bills should always err on the side of specificity because someone enforcing such a bill can interpret it however they want then claim it wasn't defined clearly as a defense later.
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*Not an expert on law or trans issues.
Dirkdiggla1 t1_j473bdl wrote
Reply to comment by ShortUSA in Best bars in Manchester? by AlexTheTolerable
The private clubs are where its at
5teerPike t1_j473ahz wrote
Reply to comment by Possible_Mud_4923 in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
You're asking a disingenuous question that transphobes came up with when they got tired of their one joke.
And you answered your own question right there; I don't know why anyone would do that unless they were such a presumptive creep like you!
Edit: I don't really give a shit "what makes a woman different" because what's going on with her isn't actually my business to begin with. But I'm saying that as a regular human from earth with a modicum of decency.
Possible_Mud_4923 t1_j472wl9 wrote
Reply to comment by 5teerPike in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Right okay so what makes a woman different from a man? Also why the hostility and why would you assume I spy on them in the bathroom lol? You got something you're trying to hide eh lol?
1carus_x OP t1_j472p50 wrote
Reply to comment by seaweed_is_cool in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Thank you for helping out 💖 I tried to make it as easy as possible
goodwilhuntingseason t1_j4711rr wrote
Reply to Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
If golf is a must in early April NH will be risky, very hit or miss until May.
travel_tech t1_j470rxf wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Ah, I hope Massachusetts gets a similar bill passed, I was born there and still need surgery if I want to get that one last document changed.
Sure, I got my name legally changed, changed my gender on my ID and with Social Security, and have been living openly as this gender for years, but no they can't possibly change the gender on my birth certificate, what if I'm just faking so I can sneak into the women's room?
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mjs710 t1_j46zb89 wrote
Totally depends on what youre looking for. For example the best gym for a strongman or powerlifter might not be the best gym for a swimmer or a beginner lifter
ThunderheadsAhead t1_j46z6nc wrote
Reply to comment by quackslikeadoug in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
>There's no "somewhere in between"
You should see the view from in here.
It also used to be "definitive(ly) medical" to do cupping, bleeding, and other strange things at one point, so I think that phrase doesn't necessarily equate to objective reality. I probably won't change your mind, and that's okay, but maybe "definite medical" is a little fuzzy and there's room to maneuver.
steelymouthtrout t1_j46ywz1 wrote
Reply to comment by irr1449 in Snowbird Lifestyle - How'd you do it? by RemediateRemediate
☝️ this is the answer.
travel_tech t1_j46yp51 wrote
For the first one, is it allowing you to change your gender marker on your birth certificate? I know from personal experience that you can already change the gender on your ID without even a doctor's note.
For the second one I have to disagree on the "it's obviously designed to protect women" part. No, it's very clear that the only reason that the bill exists is to harm trans people.
Seahearn4 t1_j46y0ga wrote
Reply to comment by whiskey_pancakes in Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
To that end there's a really fun par-3 course in Hyannis (Edit: Twin Brooks Golf Course). It has a hotel on site too. There may not be a ton to do there besides golf, though. Cape businesses don't generally pick up until mid-May.
whiskey_pancakes OP t1_j46v7zn wrote
Reply to comment by Chappy_Sinclair_ in Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
Ok thanks for the heads up
whiskey_pancakes OP t1_j46v5hf wrote
Reply to comment by JackWWalsh in Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
Interesting I’ve never thought about it. I’m from ny and we’re pretty much thinking Portsmouth Burlington or the finger lakes. I’ll mention the cape
Chappy_Sinclair_ t1_j46u594 wrote
Reply to Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
It all depends on the weather and if the courses are dry enough - it's too far out to tell.
There's a big indoor golf course in Portsmouth called TOUR if that'd be an option. It's not in the fun part of town but it's a short drive away.
JackWWalsh t1_j46tz2x wrote
Reply to Portsmouth bachelor party question by whiskey_pancakes
Will be hit or miss, depending how wet it is.
The Cape is probably a safer option.
irr1449 t1_j46sjdi wrote
I live in the White Mountains and I’ve found winter to be much more ….. palatable as I’ve forced myself to take up a number of winter activities. Skiing, cross country and downhill, hiking, snow shoeing. I actually look forward to winter now. The key is dressing right. I wear long underwear pretty much November through March. I hate being cold.
Maintaining a second home thousand of miles away is a nightmare unless you have enough money to pay a property manager. We had a vacation home for a few years and it was a constant headache. IMHO it just wasn’t worth it compared to taking a vacation or two in the winter. It’s just such a waste of resources to have a house that only gets used half the year. You could have a much nicer house in NH and go to Florida for a few weeks on vacation. Unless money is no object it’s hard to really rationalize.
5teerPike t1_j46rgq6 wrote
Reply to comment by B1naryD1git in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
I wouldn't compare a gender identity to a costume, personally. Seeing as one is a choice & the other isn't.
I'm non binary, what do you want to know?
Historical_Pie_5193 t1_j47a365 wrote
Reply to comment by BelichicksBurner in New Hampshire Trans Sanctuary Bill (plus two others) by 1carus_x
Then how would you know if what you’re saying is true?