Recent comments in /f/newhampshire

CocoTheElder t1_j532t6c wrote

I have to admit, i was against trans healthcare for minors, until I had to rush my own kid to er and found out how they felt about their body and sex at birth. That was 9 years ago. My kid is alive, has transitioned, and is now happy at age 25. I have totally changed my views. No one whose kid is not trans can truly understand how vital affirming Healthcare really is. Please, all of you, stay in your lane.

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Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_j531yfq wrote

Their brains are not even fully developed yet, as well as not being able to comprehend the concept of gender. There is no reason to allow this to happen to children and does irreparable harm both physically and mentally to proceed with anything.

Leave them alone and allow them the time to fully decide for themselves instead of people moving too fast.

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Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_j531a98 wrote

Children do not need puberty blocker for something that they do not even understand. It is highly reckless and abusive to prevent a child from developing as their body dictates. Gender dysphoria is a serious issue that does not mean they need to act on when they are children.

Those who would recommend a child to go through any procedure before they are adult do not have the child's welfare as their primary concern.

Again, why are people pushing for this?

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Kv603 t1_j52uy1f wrote

Would be helpful if they released a bit more of a breakdown of these "reports" by category and disposition.

> > "We've seen an increase over the last several years, certainly in the number of complaints we've received," said Sean Locke, director of the Civil Rights Unit.

> > Complaints are also coming from people in the community, even if the act wasn't directed at them.

> > It's the job of the unit to look at the complaint and see if legal action can or should be taken.

> > He said that if the unit can't take legal action on a complaint, it's good to know about the issue because officials can monitor where it's happening and whether more outreach should be offered to those communities.

So what has quadrupled is the total number reports where the person calling in thought they were a witness to or a victim of hate, even when the act being reported was not unlawful?

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Quirky_Butterfly_946 t1_j52udh6 wrote

This was on a post about a week or so ago.

Children should not have transition medication, surgery until they are adults if they still want it. Doing anything to minors is a form of abuse as they are incapable of processing any of this as well as make any decisions.

What I want to know is why the big push to get children to take such drastic measures?

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AnythingToAvoidWork t1_j524ked wrote

I worked at the Moat in highschool! Biggest regret was not stealing the recipes when I quit.

I think I still remember how to make the slaw but I haven't tried in years.

The short ribs are pretty simple. Just Sysco ribs smoked with mesquite and apple wood ~3x3" chunks, 50/50. Wood is absolutely soaked. They keep them submerged in buckets of water.

Can't remember the bbq sauce but everything was Sysco ingredients.

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AnythingToAvoidWork t1_j523wm5 wrote

I live in that general area (south).

Some things:

  • Try to find some candlepin bowling

  • If you want to get a little bit of a drink on I recommend Over the Moon in Pittsfield (beautiful, meadery), Blasty Bough in Sanford (odd hours, very small/cozy brewery/farm. Very friendly and laid back. You may have a rooster try to intimidate you), and Chuck's Barbershop ok Concord (speakeasy/cocktails). I listed my 3 favorite places in a line from Gunstock down to Concord in order.

  • Gunstock obviously has skiing

  • Depending on the weather, Barrington has a very easy walk/hike, Stonehouse Pond.

  • Portsmouth is awesome and great for tourists.

Feel free to PM me if you have any specific questions. I'm 33 and I know the state pretty well up and down as long as it's east of Concord. Only time I go west of it is to go to VT.

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No1_Nozits_Me t1_j522wzx wrote

I'm curious if you see all the same people when you go. I mean, I'm fairly certain that areas of the state have enough people for stores to be busy with different shoppers every day.

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