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Hrekires t1_jcyuuz4 wrote

That's going to be a real blow to some towns.

It's wild to me that I can literally stand on my parents' front porch in Kearny and see the Manhattan skyline, but it takes me longer to commute into the city from there than it does from my house in Cranford 30 minutes further away.

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Raptor_Yeezus t1_jcynkix wrote

I’ve lived here since 2018 near Route 72, Tabernacle before that. Main thing is it’s very quiet with not much to do but I actually don’t mind that as I like fishing, kayaking, outdoors stuff, I do have a dual sport motorcycle as well.

I do not have/want children so 0 info on schools. I hear they are not great but improving.

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chinasucksmyballs t1_jcyma4n wrote

Reply to comment by Sinsid in Newark’s comeback?!? by SnooBooks4898

I drive that every single day. It’s been under 5. Maybe you’re thinking about the surrounding area like the Van Houten area but the actual 46/3 split is around 5 maybe less.

It can’t be 10 cuz I have been living here for 9 and the construction didn’t start til a few years after me

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Sinsid t1_jcyljtv wrote

Nope it’s been close to 10. My son is 11, he went to a daycare off valley road. That shit was under construction since he was 2 at least. When he hit kindergarten we held a feast at my home. The feast of no more paying for daycare and commuting through a construction zone.

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Sn_Orpheus t1_jcyk2h8 wrote

Some possibilities: We have been sitting for so long while driving, we take this opportunity to stretch our legs. OR... We moved to NJ after living outside of state and it's almost muscle memory that we get out of the car when getting gas. I will agree though if it's raining, I'm pretty good staying in.

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storm2k t1_jcyjdds wrote

we are several steps ahead of a lot of other states (especially since many of them purposefully make it as difficult as possible to get the benefits you're entitled to) but things are still more difficult than they should be. unemployment is the biggest offender in this (their website is like 20 years out of date at this point) but other facets of state government lag hard.

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beltalowda_oye t1_jcyijql wrote

This may depend on where you live. We had stuff mailed to us about benefits my parents are eligible for for medicaid and such. If you're ever hospitalized in NJ and worried about incurring an insane medical debt, there are team of social workers who will help you navigate it all. Believe it or not, our state isn't all that bad when it comes to these things. A lot of other states are way worse like making the portal and process of application overly complicating and convoluted.

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storm2k t1_jcyhew2 wrote

based on most of the new construction i've seen everywhere else in the city, it won't be. it will be the same cookie cutter bs that gets thrown up everywhere. at this point the only places you see "interesting" facades are usually when they redevelop historic buildings and they try to keep the historic facades.

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fltlsyko t1_jcyfoq3 wrote

Yup, that's just how gentrification works in cities. That's why you don't see NYU students and families from the Midwest with strollers walking around Canarsie. I was just making a generalization, one would have to write a whole essay to address the way every neighborhood will be affected individually.

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